Coke use is rife.
People you wouldn't think either. Once you can see what someone on coke looks like it's easy to spot everywhere.
I've been someone who turned a blind eye to coke use in the past.
I was very close to a couple where the husband was a coke addict. They would limit themselves to weekend usage. It meant they would be tetchy, on edge, looking for an argument to have an excuse to use on a Friday night.
There were kids involved.
Saturdays after a session would be a write off. The would be too hungover to function.
You'll get people saying it isn't a big deal, people drink more and it's the same blah blah blah.
In my opinion it shows a gross lack of judgement and boundaries to take illegal drugs at all let alone while in charge of children.
They are getting them from a dealer who is probably exploiting other children to move the drugs around.let alone what happens down chain.
Taking coke is not a victimless past time.
I think you are right to be wary of your child going to their home.
They aren't safeguarding their own children - they certainly aren't going to safeguard yours.
I cut all ties to the family I knew. There were other issues that snapped me out of the gaslighting and made me really look at the whole situation.