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To think it’s time to do away with the ‘average size is 16’ fact?

81 replies

AnAwesomePossum · 19/05/2021 20:07

I mean honestly, it’s a “fact” that has been perpetrated since early 2010s (if not before) but I’m struggling to see how it’s supposed to be recorded. Its not the census - which if anything should ask BMI; but it doesn’t. You can’t do it based on viewing a person as a 16 looks different between someone 5’ and 6’. It could be average clothes sales - but it’s not hard to consider that someone at a larger or lower size buys a lot in one go to accommodate their needs - so essentially it will always be skewed.

So, my TLDR - AIBU to suggest that we need to rid ourselves of the ‘average size is...’.

I feel like it’s time to stop thinking that an ‘average’ dress size is even a thing. People are not sizes, and sizes mean absolutely nothing anyway. It’s just another means to validate or shame people with an arbitrary number.

[as an aside, men do not have an ‘ideal’ dress size and as far as I’m aware, I don’t know of any existing ‘average men’s sizes’ “facts”]

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DrManhattan · 19/05/2021 20:13

I thought it had been done away with?

Akire · 19/05/2021 20:16

Isn’t it used as a Mark of overweight as a general population? Rather than that’s the normal way to aspire to?

Insertfunnyname · 19/05/2021 20:19

Very true about men. There is no “the average man is a 38” waist” equivalent that I’d heard! Why is it always women judged on size/weight.

traumatisednoodle · 19/05/2021 20:22

Whose judging ? I assume size 16 is mean dress size sold rather than the mode. However IMO sizes 8,10&12, 14 will buy more clothes each than sizes 18,20,22 &24.

AnAwesomePossum · 19/05/2021 20:27

But that’s the thing - I hear it again and again ‘size 16 is average’ - but based on who? What physiological structure? What height? Why do we only care about ‘average’ size of women and not men?

The “average size” for women has consistently been a ‘16’ for women for a long time now but I don’t know how that information is collated and what the purpose of knowing it is beyond a way to validate or beat women with another stick. It’s meaningless.

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Sarahandco · 19/05/2021 20:43

I think 16 is the mean.

RestingPandaFace · 19/05/2021 20:45

It’s based on the average of sales.

RestingPandaFace · 19/05/2021 20:46

Calculated using the ema wherever I’ve worked.

RestingPandaFace · 19/05/2021 20:47

mean not ema. Although an Emma did do the sums at one retailler.

Dishwashersaurous · 19/05/2021 20:48

Based on retail sales average

XenoBitch · 19/05/2021 20:48

YANBU
Average size does not mean a healthy one.

Lockheart · 19/05/2021 20:54

The average adult in the UK is overweight (two thirds of UK adults are overweight or obese).

If the most women are overweight and the most common clothes size is a 16, then it's not a huge leap to make a connection between the two.

However, I agree clothing sizes are arbitrary numbers and just because you're a 12 in M&S and a 14 in H&M, it doesn't mean you've gained 15lb crossing the road. Clothes sizes are guidelines only.

pourmeanotherglass · 19/05/2021 20:57

Im a 16 and dont feel very average, most people i know are slimmer than me.

pourmeanotherglass · 19/05/2021 20:58

Most shops seem to stock from an 8 to an 18 so you would think a 12-14 would be average

Dustinto · 19/05/2021 20:59

It’s not a reliable statistic but it is helpful to describe obesity by average dress size, it’s easily relatable and dress size broadly indicates body size.

Obesity is a problem in the UK, we should be addressing that problem not denying it.

Undisclosedlocation · 19/05/2021 21:00

I could say I’m ‘proud’ that since my twenties I’ve gone from a size 12/14 to a size 8/10 now.
It would however disguise the fact that I weigh half a stone more now than then Grin

Clothes sizes are pretty meaningless and are based on vanity selling not body shape

wigglerose · 19/05/2021 21:01

We need to do awsy with sizes and size clothes by reference to waist circumferencr or inside leg and so on.

AnneLovesGilbert · 19/05/2021 21:07

Even if it’s true I can’t understand why people on here, at least, are so obsessed with saying it.

Unless you’re well above average height then wearing a 16 probably means you’re overweight.

Any discussion of dress size or weight on here leads to things like “size 14 means you’re definitely not big, don’t you know a 16 is average?”

It’s completely meaningless.

Sizes are also mostly meaningless given you can be an 8 in M&S and a 14 in Zara.

One poster said she was a 22 and everyone called her slim, I don’t think she was joking.

Slippy78 · 19/05/2021 21:11

Why do we only care about ‘average’ size of women and not men?
It's a statistical fact. If you 'care' about it then you should be asking yourself why.

Noodlewave · 19/05/2021 21:15

@Insertfunnyname

Very true about men. There is no “the average man is a 38” waist” equivalent that I’d heard! Why is it always women judged on size/weight.
I can think of one average size measurement that men seem to be quite bothered about...
forinborin · 19/05/2021 21:16

Oh, by the way, always wanted to ask (not British). I usually wear 8/10 bottom and 10/12 top, but bought a vintage item a couple of years ago (not sure about the manufacturing year, presumably 50s), it was labeled 16 and it was quite tight. Confused
Was there a change in labeling over time? Or just gentle size creep?

redcandlelight · 19/05/2021 21:17

yanbu
dress sizes vary so much
I have clothes in my that range from size 10 to 18. all fit well

RestingPandaFace · 19/05/2021 21:19

@forinborin

Oh, by the way, always wanted to ask (not British). I usually wear 8/10 bottom and 10/12 top, but bought a vintage item a couple of years ago (not sure about the manufacturing year, presumably 50s), it was labeled 16 and it was quite tight. Confused Was there a change in labeling over time? Or just gentle size creep?
Very much so. Sizes used to be based on standard measurements, they are now much larger.
LexMitior · 19/05/2021 21:22

There's really only one way to tell size and that's a tape measure, and then working out your hip to waist ratio. Not full proof, but waist size is a much better indicator of health and what actual size you are. You can't hide from the truth!