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Busybody neighbour asked me to move stuff off my drive as its in her line of sight

303 replies

Bobbiebigbum · 18/05/2021 10:58

Silly cow. It's a kids bike, a carriage and a dog blanket. They were out as I was cleaning the boot of the car. IABU to tell her to feck off? We're in a cul de sac. She has nothing better to do than look out of her window. Clearly.

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aspoonfulofyourownmedicine · 19/05/2021 20:06

A neighbour knocked here and asked me to remove the items out of my garden as they were selling the house and potential buyers had complained that I had furniture etc outside. I sent them packing and then put a fridge freezer out just in time for a viewing (tbf it was being collected by a friend but my new one was being delivered imminently 🤣🤣🤣) - they weren't buying my house and if they were decent enough people, they would've noticed that we are in the middle of renovation and redecorating - hence the stuff outside!

Some people clearly have nothing better to do!

elfycat · 19/05/2021 20:10

@NoMLMbots

OMG was it the fumes?

We have a huge log pile down the side of the house and spilling onto the drive (clean air act woodburner, but we seem to rotate whole trees DH acquires off ebay, from tree surgeon friends who need an empty truck in a hurry etc.) I think it's rustic, and I could probably shift half a full grown sycamore to your drive to finish drying out there.

AdoraBell · 19/05/2021 20:17

Late to the party, sorry but I would have suggested the neighbor stops talking because they’re in your ear shot.

One of our neighbors came round to complain that we had bought our house. Turned she had pushed a fence panel down so that her dogs used this garden as their toilet.

RachaelN · 19/05/2021 20:17

I would have to turn this into a game of random driveway stuff just to wind her up Grin

Dontwanttolivewithmylover · 19/05/2021 20:26

Put a large mirror as close to her as possible so she can gawp at herself all day long.

Mumsnut · 19/05/2021 20:30

Do
You know anyone with a van? A caravan?

If so, invite them to park it chez you for a day or two

Nat6999 · 19/05/2021 20:39

I would get a load of knickers hung bunting style outside your house or a flagpole with the biggest pair of granny knickers you can find hung on it.

Calamaribabe · 19/05/2021 20:52

What you need is a row of...

PENGUIN BOLLARDS!!

3CCC · 19/05/2021 20:55

@Calamaribabe

What you need is a row of...

PENGUIN BOLLARDS!!

GrinGrinGrin
TurquoiseDragon · 19/05/2021 20:56

@Nat6999

I would get a load of knickers hung bunting style outside your house or a flagpole with the biggest pair of granny knickers you can find hung on it.
And for maximum impact, baggy, out of shape, washed and dingy grey ones.
NoMLMbots · 19/05/2021 21:03

[quote elfycat]@NoMLMbots

OMG was it the fumes?

We have a huge log pile down the side of the house and spilling onto the drive (clean air act woodburner, but we seem to rotate whole trees DH acquires off ebay, from tree surgeon friends who need an empty truck in a hurry etc.) I think it's rustic, and I could probably shift half a full grown sycamore to your drive to finish drying out there.[/quote]
That's kind but the neighbour is deceased so no longer a problem

MakeMathsFun · 19/05/2021 21:23

@fadedred:

Your carriage image certainly put a smile on my face. Excellent, well done!!!

MakeMathsFun · 19/05/2021 21:24

@dreamthemoors

I agree, and perhaps sunbathe without clothes.

MakeMathsFun · 19/05/2021 21:37

@aspoonfulofyourownmedicine

I am empathetic to to the person posting this main thread.
However, with regard to your comment, I do understand the point of the neighbour selling the house. If they asked politely, then it is a reasonable request. Even if they were rude, then putting an old freezer outside sounds spiteful and unnecessary. Losing a potential buyer because of a joke act like that could reduce the selling price by thousands of pounds. Hardly fair, given that they asked you not to and gave a valid reason why.
I had an old beaten up vintage car rotting on its chassis for years. When my neighbours asked me to hide it so they could sell their house, I ordered a large camouflaged tarpaulin for £25 and it 'disappeared'. I did not take offence to their request, and I did not add an old freezer to make their selling situation worse.

With regard to a busybody complaining about 'line of sight' of a bike, a carriage and a dog blanket during a temporary clearout, I have little sympathy. Its not her garden afterall.

DreamTheMoors · 19/05/2021 21:41

@MakeMathsFun

Hahaha definitely. Perfect, and perhaps have a “nude couples” barbecue.
My mum always told me that if people were staring, give them something to look at. Grin

Bobbiebigbum · 19/05/2021 21:54

Loving these suggestions. Bonkers lady in the past has also asked me not to trim my hedge as it blocks a small (very useful) car park behind it. I might go out one night under the cover of darkness and give it a grade 1.

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aspoonfulofyourownmedicine · 19/05/2021 22:04

[quote MakeMathsFun]@aspoonfulofyourownmedicine

I am empathetic to to the person posting this main thread.
However, with regard to your comment, I do understand the point of the neighbour selling the house. If they asked politely, then it is a reasonable request. Even if they were rude, then putting an old freezer outside sounds spiteful and unnecessary. Losing a potential buyer because of a joke act like that could reduce the selling price by thousands of pounds. Hardly fair, given that they asked you not to and gave a valid reason why.
I had an old beaten up vintage car rotting on its chassis for years. When my neighbours asked me to hide it so they could sell their house, I ordered a large camouflaged tarpaulin for £25 and it 'disappeared'. I did not take offence to their request, and I did not add an old freezer to make their selling situation worse.

With regard to a busybody complaining about 'line of sight' of a bike, a carriage and a dog blanket during a temporary clearout, I have little sympathy. Its not her garden afterall.[/quote]
@MakeMathsFun

Absolutely nothing spiteful about it at all, my new fridge freezer was being delivered 'imminently' as in within a 2hour slot and my old one being collected within the same 2 hour slot by a friend who needed a fridge freezer. We moved it outside because we have a teeny tiny kitchen and wouldn't fit 2 in there in order to get one in one out. With regards to the other stuff in the garden at the time they complained - we were busy in the house, furniture was a tv cabinet, chest of drawers, bedside cabinets and carpet - all which I'd given away for free on a local FB group helping people with nothing to start out & were awaiting collection over those 2 days, they were covered with tarpaulin but they still weren't happy. Even if they weren't being given away and being collected, I couldn't get anything to the tip anyway as

a) my car isn't big enough for large pieces of furniture
b) our local tip has a bizarre rule of you can only attend on an even date if your car reg is even, and odd date if reg is odd and it wasn't our day
c) I couldn't lift anything on my own even if I wanted to as I have a back injury so could only go when DH home and he was working on our 'tip day'
d) our council collection waiting list is 6 weeks long for bulky collection - so it was either put up with it for 2 days or 6 weeks.

Why should I put a hold on my life and the chance to do home improvements to appease other people? I'm neither spiteful nor an awful person and had their request been reasonable I may have seen their point, but expecting us to stop work on our home so they can sell theirs is unreasonable, the items were there less than 2 days and were not causing any issues, anyone with sense could see we were busy working on the house whilst both of us were home.

FWIW the house hasn't sold due to them asking £20k over the value price and refusing reasonable offers but that's a whole new thread, not because we renovated and redecorated some of our home and they didn't like the timescales. After all, the thread is about busybody neighbours who can't mind their own business.

Charmatt · 19/05/2021 22:06

'Ah, well! The problem is that you don't buy the view, love!'

🎉

Timeisavirtue · 19/05/2021 22:23

I’d rent a massive caravan and park it on your drive just to piss her off... but that’s just me 😂

deste · 19/05/2021 22:42

We put our motor home up my sisters drive because our neighbour was painting his gutters. Her neighbour was furious because there was a commotion down the road and she couldn’t see over it so missed it. The commotion was someone had died.

Barney60 · 19/05/2021 22:47

Faded Red Ha ha Ha love it!

Bobbiebigbum · 19/05/2021 22:53

Reinforces again many of the British public are bonkers.

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numberoneson · 19/05/2021 23:02

@TheFnozwhowasmirage

I too wouldn't be able to resist adding random items to your collection. The person who owns the field next to one of ours,got the legal dept of his insurers,to write to us: to complain that our sheep were looking at him through the hedge,and would we please stop them. It was summer,they hadn't been shorn yet and they were lying in the shade of the hedge,to get out of the sun. My horses are in there now. They do far worse things than look at people, particularly the gelding who thinks that he's a stallion.....Grin
This wins today's internet for me!
DreamTheMoors · 19/05/2021 23:25

@MakeMathsFun
I renovated once & had to move things around inside and outside. It was a pain in the arse, but my home turned out beautifully.
You most certainly don’t have to defend yourself to anyone - including @aspoonfulofyourownmedicine - it’s perfectly understandable and reasonable.
I hope you’re enjoying your “new” home.

user1478939671 · 20/05/2021 00:10

Go for the feck off option or take a book round to her cos clearly she is bored.