I want children but it might not happen now.
However, I first discovered MN through a little magical website called Google, maybe you’ve heard of it?
If you’ve ever googled anything at all really like “is The Ordinary skincare any good?” “Can you catch chickenpox if you had it already as a child?” “Tranexamic acid real life experiences” “Where should I shop now I’m in my thirties?” you might be completely and utterly astounded but that magical little website “Google” actually sends you links to Mumsnet with threads about the exact thing you’ve searched AND it doesn’t ask you to provide your DCs birth certificates or upload any proof that you are trying to conceive.
Also, I sadly may not have my own children but I do need advice in caring for children in my family and friendship circle - some of us are aunts, godmothers, girlfriends of parents, teachers, ta’s, babysitters or simply don’t know how to deal with a toddler that isn’t ours but maybe our sister or sil or bff’s child that trashes our house when they come to visit.
I really don’t see why some people find it that hard to understand.
Is it a Mean Girls thing? “You can’t sit with us unless you are a Mummy” tinkly laugh, head tilt, sneer?
The vast majority of posts on this site have NOTHING to do with motherhood or children. There’s the OLD threads, the Yoga threads, The Diet threads, Stately Homes, Princessing etc. Do you only go on the parenting posts or something?
Also try the magical little Google search engine. It will link you to hundreds of MN threads identical to yours if you need more research.