we have always had a family xmas ,son left home in may said things were hard here since his nephew died,so moved in with girlfriend,dd is spending it at home cos his family say it wont b fair if kids come here,they didnt want to know last year dd says will we take them to cemetry as his parents dont like going .darent tell my 16 dd her nieces wont b here ,i know im been a moody cow but pissed off and need to vent,i arent working till nite shift and have xmas eve off so i wont be knackered