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If I walked into your office carrying this bag

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QuietBatPeople1 · 16/04/2021 15:03

What would your first thought be? Too loud? Too big? Great bag to fit everything in?

www.katespade.co.uk/en-gb/handbags/spade-flower-jacquard-everything-stripe-large-tote/PXRUB272.html?dwcolor=BLUE-MULTI#start=1

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EventuallyDistracted · 16/04/2021 22:07

It's not because I think £350 is too much for a bag, but that one looks more like a £40 bag.

Talkwhilstyouwalk · 16/04/2021 22:24

It's alright. Expensive for what it is. Can kind of see an elderly lady carrying it around. Not my grandma though, she's really cool.

friendlycat · 16/04/2021 22:25

I agree. I’m not unduly shocked at a bag costing £350 but that bag costing that amount.

Talkwhilstyouwalk · 16/04/2021 22:27

@katy1213

I'd think you got it from TKMaxx - but why would you care what people think of your bag? Why would people even have an opinion? Do you work at Vogue?
Haha! Yes - I see what you mean Grin
catherineofarrogance80 · 16/04/2021 22:28

Is this a humble brag bag?

Happylittlethoughts · 16/04/2021 22:31

Quite an ugly beach bag .. that's what I would think to be honest . If you told me the price I wouldn't whether to laughbir cry ..I'm pretty shocked. Bags aren't my thing though so ...

LavendulaAngustifolia · 16/04/2021 22:32

Blends in with the wallpaper.

RampantIvy · 16/04/2021 22:41

@FallenSky

I wouldn't think much of anything to be honest. It's a bag.
Same here. I just don't notice bags. To me they are just a practical item to carry stuff around in. Sorry.
Changingwiththetimes · 16/04/2021 22:43

It's ok. Wouldn't think anything of it in particular.

HalzTangz · 16/04/2021 22:45

@QuietBatPeople1

What would your first thought be? Too loud? Too big? Great bag to fit everything in?

www.katespade.co.uk/en-gb/handbags/spade-flower-jacquard-everything-stripe-large-tote/PXRUB272.html?dwcolor=BLUE-MULTI#start=1

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I like handbags and probably have around 75 of them, I'd never pay £350 for one though, and as others said it doesn't scream designer to be worth the price tag.
HeronLanyon · 16/04/2021 22:47

I’d wonder if you had a picnic later or were using a beach/child stuff bag. Looks like it will be waterproof inside for some reason. I’d think it was rather ugly. This is if I was questioned at the time and looked.
Realistically I wouldn’t notice it.

HalzTangz · 16/04/2021 22:52

[quote QuietBatPeople1]@FourTeaFallOut yes I think I should go for the entire ensemble!!! 😂😂😂[/quote]
So are you looking for a bag you like that fits everything in, or are you looking for a bag that your colleagues will gush over?

If the first, why would you be bothered what others think, you should buy what you like.

If it's the latter, I'd be wondering why you need that 'gishing' attention from others

KatherineJaneway · 16/04/2021 22:55

I wouldn't even think that. So many sample sales, second hand opportunities, bag rental company even.. You can never guess how much anyone spent on anything these days.

I didn't comment on what you would think, I said what I would think based on the OP's question.

QuietBatPeople1 · 16/04/2021 22:56

@catherineofarrogance80 - no it’s just a bag

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FangsForTheMemory · 16/04/2021 22:57

Granny bag. Sorry.

gildalily · 16/04/2021 22:57

I don't think I'd think anything. It's just a bag.

HalzTangz · 16/04/2021 22:59

[quote QuietBatPeople1]@Isthereaduckinthehouse I have something similar to this
www.michaelkors.co.uk/mel-medium-saffiano-leather-tote-bag/_/R-30S1G3MT2L?color=0701[/quote]
I also carry a laptop, 10 or so folders, notebook, diary etc. The two bags you provide links for don't look big enough to carry what you listed.

Wouldn't you be better with a laptop bag (loads nice ones now days) with a regular handbag?

QuietBatPeople1 · 16/04/2021 23:00

Okay for everybody who is commenting on ‘why I’m bothered about what others think’ I’m not- at all. If I like something I go for it.

This one is something I was on the fence- I’m looking for a work bag- which carry’s all my IT plus personal stuff in. Since I was on the fence thought I’ll post here to see what others see when you look at the bag.

It’s not an absolute favourite of mine else I would have bought it by now

I’m not marketing anything
Im not a spy for any handbag companies
I’m not selling anything
I’m not under confident
Im not bragging

The price tag doesn’t bother me as I always buy bags to last long and look good- timeless pieces as I see these as investments.

This is the first fabric one I went ‘ oh maybe...’

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QuietBatPeople1 · 16/04/2021 23:03

@HalzTangz I don’t want to carry too many bags around- hence looking for all in one option. I’m 5’2 and petite so don’t want a HUGE bag to swamp me too.

Backpacks are a complete no - I never carry those properly and always end up with some sort of an ache

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Macncheeseballs · 16/04/2021 23:05

£350 for a bag is stupid

monkeysox · 16/04/2021 23:07

I'd think you'd lose things out if it's open top.
It's expensive

LolaSmiles · 16/04/2021 23:10

I tend not to notice people's bags unless they're unusually nice or unusually not nice/odd for the workplace.
That bag would stand out for all the wrong reasons to me.

GreyhoundG1rl · 16/04/2021 23:12

You asked "What would you think if I walked into your office wearing this bag?", op 🤣
Not "Is this bag nice?" Subtle, but huge difference.

GinAndTonicOnIt · 16/04/2021 23:15

I really like it. I wouldn't ever spend £300 on a bag, ever, though.

My honest first thought was that it reminded me a bit of the £15 cool bag I bought in Sainsbury's earlier today... but I liked that bag too....

www.sainsburys.co.uk/gol-ui/Product/global-market-holdall-cool-bag

kelly14 · 16/04/2021 23:15

I wouldn't have an opinion as such, would probably compliment it though, ask where is was from.
I do order it in the other colour available though, the pink one.