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To want to faint in McDonalds?

470 replies

TheLowestFlyer · 12/04/2021 12:18

DH has slowly introduced a regime of positive reinforcement that, for a wide range of reasons, means I have to take the DC to McDonalds once a month for a sit down meal. This produces a physical response in me that makes me want to, first, gag and then faint. I assume it must be the vaporised oil in the air, the terrible food odours and weird and discoloured plastic decor (and the hyperactive and frankly unappealing toddlers screaming around whenever we go?). Whatever it is, it triggers a really intense response from me and I basically dread these scheduled outings and have to choke back vomiting for the whole meal.

Unfortunately the DC have become really emotionally invested in these going to MacDonalds (to what I think is a really unhealthy level) and DH's schedule means that I am unquestionably the only one who can take then. How do I extricate myself from going to McDonalds? Has anyone else weaned their DC from depending fast food? They genuinely love it, especially the earth-killing toys they abandon minutes after leaving Sad

OP posts:
UCOinanOCG · 12/04/2021 12:38

Who is the regime of positive reinforcement for? You or the kids?

Zoecarter · 12/04/2021 12:38

Why don’t you take them some where else for a treat 🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️

ghostyslovesheets · 12/04/2021 12:38

DH has slowly introduced a regime of positive reinforcement for you or the kids?

Jesus seriously just go to the drive through, or better still grow up and say 'NO DH you take them or find another reward' - but seriously - you sit there gagging while they eat - right oh

roguetomato · 12/04/2021 12:39

Why McDonalds though. There are better options like cafe or restaurants to reinforce positive regime.

BrumBoo · 12/04/2021 12:39

Get a grip for goodness sake. How melodramatic can you get....

UhtredRagnarson · 12/04/2021 12:39

It's hard enough getting the stench off my DC's hands.

Try soap and water.

GeorgesGreenDinosaur · 12/04/2021 12:39

I have so many questions about this post, and so far the only possible answer I can come to, is that the OP has been sniffing glue.

ilovesooty · 12/04/2021 12:40

@TellerTuesday

Well you haven't been able to sit down in MacDonalds for months so I'm totally baffled
Me too.
AcornAutumn · 12/04/2021 12:40

The place is hellish OP. I'd just refuse. Take them somewhere you can enjoy. This whole thing is insane. Why does he choose this when it's not him going?

bookbuddy · 12/04/2021 12:41

@DustOnTheWind

How do you feel about The Sistine Chapel?
Grin howling
BrumBoo · 12/04/2021 12:42

@MissMoiselle

Try Burger King? They may use a different kind of vaporised oil? Grin Grin
My local BK is actually situated a floor away from the dine-in area, so there's zero 'smells'. Which is good, because it's BK (my husband loves a BK as a treat, I always get a footlong Subway instead).
Haydaywithbellson · 12/04/2021 12:42

They don't get toys anymore do they? It's all books in the happy meals where I am

ilovesooty · 12/04/2021 12:42

Oh. Australia. Sorry.
Still find it baffling though.

MoiraNotRuby · 12/04/2021 12:43

@DustOnTheWind

How do you feel about The Sistine Chapel?
CRYING at this
wobblyweasel · 12/04/2021 12:43

@DustOnTheWind
GrinGrinGrinGrin

Sorry OP. But what the bloody hell are you on about?! I suspect a troll is in our midst.......

ChequerBoard · 12/04/2021 12:43

If you hate it so much why are you unable to say no? What would happen if you did?

You feeling unable to refuse to do what your DH is insisting upon the rest of the family doing is the problem here!

You are either feeling controlled and are anxious about repercussions of refusing, or being a martyr - either way it needs to stop.

Thehop · 12/04/2021 12:44

Tell your bloody husband no!

And tell the kids “I hate McDonald’s, it makes me feel ill, so I’m
Not going. My treat to you is going to the park. Of dads promised Mac Donald’s then you need to take that up with him”

FreekStar · 12/04/2021 12:45

Oh FFS! You are an adult! You don't have to go! If you don't want to take your children then don't!

thenameshastings · 12/04/2021 12:46

I love a maccys. The wraps are nice, the coffee is actually pretty decent for the price and our local one is really clean.

NommyChompers · 12/04/2021 12:46

Tell them they’ve been extra good so as a treat you are going to X instead? Do your own positive re-enforcement

PussGirl · 12/04/2021 12:47

This sounds more live aversion therapy than positive reinforcement.

Just don't take them - let DH take them. Or better still, don't have them go at all - children don't have to eat that shite

PussGirl · 12/04/2021 12:47

*like not live

Candyfloss99 · 12/04/2021 12:48

Just don't go. If you DH has made this happen then he can find the time to take them.

Cornettoninja · 12/04/2021 12:48

[quote wobblyweasel]@DustOnTheWind
GrinGrinGrinGrin

Sorry OP. But what the bloody hell are you on about?! I suspect a troll is in our midst.......[/quote]
Hmmm maybe but what an odd (frankly boring) thing to troll about...

saying that I was once on a thread about something incredibly dull, probably about how people peg out their washing, and someone posted ‘ha ha! I’m a troll’ and everyone was just ‘WTF? Confused - you’re really crap at trolling’

sadonfriday · 12/04/2021 12:49

@DustOnTheWind

How do you feel about The Sistine Chapel?
Oh I’m done Grin
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