@Heysiriyouknob thank you. That it was my ex (dds father and at the time dd was primary age and it very much impacted her too) was particularly disgraceful.
I've known it happen to a few people - it's often ex's or ex in laws out of spite!
I'm a survivor of csa myself and it was a lone middle aged man did the inspection. I didn't feel able to protest or complain for fear it would make matters worse! Very distressing he even went through the bins! I have ocd and I did insist he did that last
Also, bear in mind the Tory government is responsible for millions of misspent £
Try billions! The corruption is off the scale!
It's been a very very steep learning curve for me going from someone who had worked full time from the age of 16 and even at times when made redundant but not getting a big payout as I hadn't been working there long it never occurred to me to claim then I went and applied for every job going and never went more than a few weeks between jobs - this was when the economy was generally doing much better and when I was fit and healthy.
Becoming disabled at the age of 32 had a massive impact on me. I managed to keep working for a few years but eventually it simply became impossible.
I'm well educated, well spoken (albeit accent is a little odd due to being an army brat), articulate and well mannered and yet from very first time I went into a municipal office to claim I was treated like shit on the clerks shoe!
I'd very much like for those who think it's so bloody easy to claim and live on benefits to put their money where their mouth is and try it! Except they won't cos deep down they know they're talking shite!
And it's been getting much worse over last 10 years for obvious reasons.
I ended up disabled thanks to a dick who thought texting was more important than watching the road while he was driving. Sickness and disability can happen to anyone at any age.