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Am I an ass hole?

166 replies

Seafog · 29/03/2021 21:07

Buddy and his Missus are in the boat, but facing each other.
They've been going round in circles for ten minutes.
Am I an ass hole for laughing?

Am I an ass hole?
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SleepingStandingUp · 29/03/2021 23:14

[quote Seafog]@LoisWilkersonslastnerve just to double down on being an ass hole/ asshole/ arsehole, this is my living room view (and my kitties)[/quote]
You sure are an arsehole 🤣

LoisWilkersonslastnerve · 29/03/2021 23:15

Kitties! Smile

willloman · 29/03/2021 23:18

two different meanings - 'ass' = donkey
eg 'he's making an ass of himself'
or
arse = arsehole
being a butt hole

ThumbWitchesAbroad · 29/03/2021 23:19

Ohhhhh - I couldn't see from your pic that they had one oar each! OMFG, what numpties!! Halloween Grin

At least they finally worked it out.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 29/03/2021 23:23

I am on Vancouver Island BC Canada

Then you're a very lucky lady Smile

I spent a month in Esquimalt years ago and only wish I could have stayed longer ...

Seafog · 29/03/2021 23:26

@Puzzledandpissedoff thanks! That is where we are posted, (Navy DH) for the next few years at least. I was totally new to the area, but I quite like it did at

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JM10 · 29/03/2021 23:30

I've always said and spelt it ass. I would say grass though and barth 🤷🏼

I will say I think I might have watched too much American TV growing up because I do randomly accidentally call things the American name sometimes. And I almost always forget and pronounce aluminium the American way 😳

Op, I got your thread, I'm on board with how you say ass and I like cats, can I come and live with you please? I promise I'll be no hassle 😁

ILoveSlipperss · 29/03/2021 23:30

@CoffeeWithMyOxygen

People from the midlands don’t say ass!

Well at least two of us do since DH and I are both born and raised and don’t say “arse”!

YABU I’m from the midlands and it’s definitely arse!!!
RB68 · 29/03/2021 23:35

I thought an Ass was a bit like a donkey

LemonMeringueThreePointOneFour · 29/03/2021 23:35

Well I got what the OP meant and thought it was funny...

My parents, who are from the north and south of England, have had quite funny bath/barth disagreements for about the last 40 years. A sort of running joke - which I suppose is appropriate (running bath...).

saraclara · 29/03/2021 23:37

I was only confused because I thought asshole was one word. But it's my American friends who spell it as one word. Are you going to tell me that Canadians make it two words?

ThumbWitchesAbroad · 29/03/2021 23:41

Read more of the intervening thread now - it's very funny!

But yes, arse and arsehole.

The arrr on the end of a word ending in 'a' is only marginally better than some sahf Lundun area accents, where words ending in 'er' are pronounced with an 'arrr' instead, e.g. she's my sistarrrr, innit.
(I'm from that area, plenty of people say it like that)

SleepingStandingUp · 29/03/2021 23:41

I sit my arse on the gr-a-s and eat my sc-own

Jenasaurus · 29/03/2021 23:56

@EvilOnion

I would find this funny, so I must be an ass/arse hole too - I don't mind which!

Film them, edit it on a fast loop and add some music for further amusement... Might I suggest the Benny Hill theme?! 🤣

That reminds me, when I went in a local maze with my nieces, one of them had the benny hill theme on their phone and played it as we rushed around the maze trying to find our way out, we got out as it turned to dusk, but that music did make it appear ridiculous
MintyMabel · 30/03/2021 00:06

Do they only have one oar each? How did they get out there into the middle of they are only going in circles. Isn’t asshole all one word?

Pinkywoo · 30/03/2021 00:57

@willloman

two different meanings - 'ass' = donkey eg 'he's making an ass of himself' or arse = arsehole being a butt hole
Ahem, I think you mean bumhole.
JamesMiddletonsMarshmallows · 30/03/2021 01:02

In fairness that would make me laugh too OP Grin

I'm a sucker for public displays of stupidity

JamesMiddletonsMarshmallows · 30/03/2021 01:05

[quote Seafog]@LoisWilkersonslastnerve just to double down on being an ass hole/ asshole/ arsehole, this is my living room view (and my kitties)[/quote]
You're an ARSE hole for having such a gorgeous view and beautiful cat. But I'll overlook that because your posts have made me laugh Grin

As an aside - does anyone think MN isn't what is used to be? A few years ago, every poster would have found that funny and anyone who didn't wouldn't have commented. Now 95% of posts seem to be tedious pernickety one up man ship about the West Midlands accent. Get a life people

VetOnCall · 30/03/2021 01:17

@Seafog I knew what you meant and knew you were Canadian as soon as I read "Buddy and..." Grin I moved to Alberta a couple of years ago and DP is Canadian - he laughed at me earlier as I said "eh" at the end of a sentence twice in the space of about 30 seconds without even realising 🇨🇦

AnotherSunrise · 30/03/2021 01:21

Who's buddy

DancesWithCatsnDogs · 30/03/2021 01:27

I was thinking of that film Meet The Fookers (sp) where the toddler very sweetly says 'Ass Hole'.
But yeah, I'd just continue watching and laughing, probably put it on You Tube as well.

tortoiselover100 · 30/03/2021 01:43

I can't believe there are people in the uk that say Mom!! It's so American, surely it's either Mum or Mam????

Andylion · 30/03/2021 01:57

@Seafog are you you aren't from Newfoundland? My cousins all use "Buddy" that way.

Also, in my home, in Ontario, we always used "mum".

1forAll74 · 30/03/2021 02:20

I say ass, and I come from Cheshire, but I always wanted to say arse years ago, but my late Mum told me not to, as it was a very bad thing to say !!

I found the boat thing quite funny,as this happened to me many yearsago,,It was on a first date with the man who became my now late husband.. It was in the 60's era., He was a sporty type.and an outdoor person..
I wasn't dressed for rowing, I had some high heeled shoes on, and a short skirt, so took my shoes off, and discovered there were a few holes in the bottom of the boat, so got my feet wet through.

Boyfriend said that he would row first to show me what to do, after a while, he said you can take over now.. I moved places, rocking the boat badly, then dropped an oar in the water, boyfriend had to hastily lean over to fish it out, before it floated away.

I then got going reasonably well,, but not so, I kept going in circles,in the middle of the lake,so boyfriend sat next to me. and we had an oar each. that worked fairly well,but then it started to rain very heavily,so he took over., and rowed back to the field like someone in the boat races here. We leapt out of the boat.soaking wet. and ran to the car, as we drove away, we looked out at the lake,only to see the rickety boat floating away from the field area, as boyfriend had forgotten to tie the boat up,and the wind had started to get strong.

Seafog · 30/03/2021 02:55

@JM10 pack yer bags, my ducky, and come on over!Grin

@MintyMabel yes, asshole should be one word, but I say it like two with a pause, so spell it that way.
No idea how they made it out, I think just drifting from the current, as they were only about 100 m from shore.

@VetOnCall good on ya, eh?! Grin

@Andylion from Ontario, married to a Newfoundlander, and just spent the last 10 years loving out in Nova Scotia before this posting, so it's stuck.
If I was from the Rock, I'd have said "Luh, Buddy's some scuppered, poor ting, 'es Missus can't get away for all her digging bys!"
But that would have started a while other "how do we spell it" thing! Grin

@1forAll74 he sounds lovely!

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