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Is there a second thread for the horse/obsessive ex owner?

278 replies

ExtraordinaryQuince · 24/03/2021 13:51

Just that really.

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SchadenfreudePersonified · 26/03/2021 07:42

I got the impression that @BlueEyesWhiteDragon didn't start a second thread because she felt there was nothing further to report, but she's popped up on this one, which is lovely.

I, too, had been hoping there would be another and was thrilled to see this one started up. I don't think anyone was hoping that there'd been a shoot-out over a "heart horse", or that any disaster had occurred - we were all hoping that the Loony-Ex had given up - but I loved reading the stories, learned a lot about horses (an animal I'll never own - not even a tiny Shitland) and just enjoyed the exchange and banter.

Thank you Quince. It's great fun.

SchadenfreudePersonified · 26/03/2021 07:45

@EggyPegg

42?! How long do horses live?!
Long enough to destroy all you hold dear, and to bankrupt you, it seems! Grin
plominoagain · 26/03/2021 08:11

You know what they say ....

How do you make a small fortune out of horses ..... start with a large one !

CaveMum · 26/03/2021 08:16

@EggyPegg

42?! How long do horses live?!
42 is pretty unusual! Most horses will live to mid to late 20s, but it depends on the individual and how they “cope” with life - some love activity and can’t cope with just being in a field doing nothing.
plominoagain · 26/03/2021 08:26

For you Gremlin , as I can’t link it -

When I was a kid , I was that pony mad kid , every Christmas , every birthday since I was about eight , all I ever asked for . But parents weren’t horsy and we just couldn’t do it . Anyhow, I finally managed to find a pony to share . I would do Saturday to Tuesday, the owner did the rest . I adored her, in the way thirteen year old girls do. And then one Saturday morning, went to the yard to find the owner had taken the pony and done a moonlight flit, owing everyone money. I was devastated. Properly distraught.

About three weeks later, I was moping about at home and mum badgered me into going shopping with her. On the way back , she remembered that I’d left a load of stuff at the stable yard and suggested we pick it up. When we got there, the owner casually said , “Oh I shut it all in your old stable, you’d better go get it “ . I went to the doors , opened them up and at that point I think I stopped breathing. For there behind the door , with her ears pricked was the most beautiful palomino pony I’d ever seen. It transpired that my parents and the yard owner had been so outraged at what had happened, that they had colluded with a local dealer, to find my own. She was my best friend for over thirty years.

Gremlinsateit · 26/03/2021 08:48

Oh my goodness! Thanks so much for the story - just marvellous SmileFlowers

sueelleker · 26/03/2021 08:51

@countrygirl99

Talking of naughty horses I was out hacking with a friend, both on coloured cobs. A humungous tractor towing an equally humungous load of hay was coming along the narrow road towards us. He kindly stopped and turned off his engine until we had passed. Both horses grabbed a mouthful of hay without changing pace.
We were on a day's pony trek in Wales, when a large lorry came up behind us. He thought he was being sensible in braking, but the sound of the air brakes sent ponies off in all directions!
BlueEyesWhiteDragon · 26/03/2021 09:06

@SchadenfreudePersonified nah I didn't mind at all. As I said I'd pondered making one because I've enjoyed the chat and it's been especially lovely to see other fans of track systems :)

@plominoagain that's amazing and similar to how my parents tormented me with my old girl!

I was 14 and had been volunteering at the stables for 4 years before my parents agreed to let me have a pony of my own. We'd got our own land at home but my parents aren't really horsey and it had always been rented out so the plan was it would be kept on livery at the yard and id work there to earn its keep.

On my regular lesson my usual chap was lame and so they brought out Gemima - a dun Welsh x Arab for me to ride instead and lord we had fun. I think I gave her my heart right at the second she came out with her tail over her back, spooked at a blade of grass (whilst doing a massive fart) before calmy walking to the centre of the ring. I asked about buying her but she was apparently on working livery and not for sale. I rode and did the care of her every chance I got.

One Friday about 6 weeks later I'd been dropped off at the stables as usual and when I went round to her stable to see her she wasn't there. I asked and they said he owners didn't want her on working livery any more and had moved her. I trudged through the chores and usual lesson a bit on autopilot. Mum picked me up and the second I was in the car I just sobbed my heart out the whole drive home. So we get home and off I go upstairs to throw myself on the bed disney princess style and cry some more! I'm sitting at the table telling my tale of woe between sniffles to dad and brother when he causally looks over to mum and says "oh isn't that the horse in the stable here" ....

She was my best mate for 24 years and the joy she brought me was unmeasurable.

PleaseReferToMeAsBritneySpears · 26/03/2021 09:06

Plominoagain
😍

DinoHat · 26/03/2021 09:11

Way to go Wotsit!

Is Wotsit a welsh?

ApplesPearsAndCrumble · 26/03/2021 09:13

@plominoagain

For you Gremlin , as I can’t link it -

When I was a kid , I was that pony mad kid , every Christmas , every birthday since I was about eight , all I ever asked for . But parents weren’t horsy and we just couldn’t do it . Anyhow, I finally managed to find a pony to share . I would do Saturday to Tuesday, the owner did the rest . I adored her, in the way thirteen year old girls do. And then one Saturday morning, went to the yard to find the owner had taken the pony and done a moonlight flit, owing everyone money. I was devastated. Properly distraught.

About three weeks later, I was moping about at home and mum badgered me into going shopping with her. On the way back , she remembered that I’d left a load of stuff at the stable yard and suggested we pick it up. When we got there, the owner casually said , “Oh I shut it all in your old stable, you’d better go get it “ . I went to the doors , opened them up and at that point I think I stopped breathing. For there behind the door , with her ears pricked was the most beautiful palomino pony I’d ever seen. It transpired that my parents and the yard owner had been so outraged at what had happened, that they had colluded with a local dealer, to find my own. She was my best friend for over thirty years.

This has amde me cry (in a good way). Thanks
plominoagain · 26/03/2021 09:29

Dino yes she is - Welsh A . The only welsh pony I know who absolutely hates the rain .

plominoagain · 26/03/2021 09:32

Blue

That’s lovely - I too wailed all the way home when I discovered my share pony had gone , and I bet you got as much joy out of your girl as I did out of my partner in crime , also Welsh x Arab !

DinoHat · 26/03/2021 09:38

Awww - I am careful now as it was inferred I was somehow bordering on racist for referring to welsh ponies as “cheeky” or “fiery” Welshsies. I’m glad Wotsit is able to support my hypothesis!! I just love welsh ponies.

Okki · 26/03/2021 09:42

This is turning into my most favourite thread ever.

CaveMum · 26/03/2021 09:43

I’ve never been lucky enough to own my own, my parents could never afford it - I had to save up my paper round money to have lessons once a fortnight. When I left school I did a BTEC in horse management so got to ride 4 days a week for 2 years. My favourite was a gorgeous black cob x TB named Blackjack. He was a total dude, forward going but always looked after you - I saw my instructor pop a 4ft 11” jump on him from trot. He had a hilarious quirk where whenever you asked him to canter he’d do a little bunny hop, squeal like a pig then bounce off into a beautiful collected pace. It’s been 22 years and I can still remember him like it was yesterday.

CaveMum · 26/03/2021 09:44

@plominoagain

Dino yes she is - Welsh A . The only welsh pony I know who absolutely hates the rain .
I have a friend who breeds Section A’s if you ever feel the need to restock Wink
DayBath · 26/03/2021 09:49

Why is this thread allowed to stand yet the Feminism Bunbury thread has been picked apart for mentioning other threads? Why are TAAT allowed sometimes and not others?come on Mumsnet, sort yourselves out and at least try and appear consistent with your rules. @MNHQ @Mumsnet @MN

Never clear if any of those @ work so I will report my post to try and get an answer.

Daytimetellysucks · 26/03/2021 10:03

@EggyPegg

42?! How long do horses live?!
My oldie is 26.

She’s really quite healthy and I’m sure, if she could, she’d outlive me to spite me.

However, she has chronic arthritis and each year it gets that little bit worse, she’ll take a knock and it takes a bit longer to get over. She’ll jump out of her field and then be a bit sore the day after.

Every year I say I reckon it will be her last, then she’ll surprise me.

Weirdly, she actually copes better with winter than summer.

While she can still get a good canter on, enjoy a good buck and fart, get up to mischief and roll in the mud, I’m happy to keep her going, but pain from the arthritis will get to her before her health

DinoHat · 26/03/2021 10:14

@DayBath

Why is this thread allowed to stand yet the Feminism Bunbury thread has been picked apart for mentioning other threads? Why are TAAT allowed sometimes and not others?come on Mumsnet, sort yourselves out and at least try and appear consistent with your rules. *@MN*HQ *@Mumsnet* *@MN*

Never clear if any of those @ work so I will report my post to try and get an answer.

Isn’t it because a thread about a banned thread isnt allowed? This is a thread about a legit thread?
YesPleaseMary · 26/03/2021 10:15

I’m not horsey at all but I have so enjoyed reading everyone’s tails

ApplesPearsAndCrumble · 26/03/2021 10:19

This was a thread about a legit thread that then became a standalone thread.

I had a beloved horse Tristan at my riding school. i adored that horse. A school friend bought him and told everyone at school I was not allowed to know because everyone knew I had wanted to buy him. It broke my heart.

My first pony was a connemara x arab. he was absolutely mad, and dangerous. (There is a long back story as to why we bought him). He had to be PTS in the end because he was a danger to everyone around him. I then bought a very bad tempered Dutch Warmblood. He was an amazing horse. He did literally everything you asked of him but with immense bad grace. Never put a foot wrong ever, but always had his nose wrinkled in disgust. He used to get the hiccups on cross country rounds which took a bit of getting used to. (I had to learn how to gallop with my legs jumping every few seconds because of his hiccups).

ApplesPearsAndCrumble · 26/03/2021 10:20

tbh I am not sure why some people on the thread want to ruin our happy chat and reminisces by reporting it.

Seems a bit unneccessary.

DinoHat · 26/03/2021 10:34

Oooo could be just want my DS needs!

DinoHat · 26/03/2021 10:36

A Welsh Sec a that is!!