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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To give you no important details and only accept answers agreeing with me?

623 replies

LAgeDeRaisin · 14/03/2021 14:51

Hi All,

NC in case outing.

In my opinion it was completely reasonable. Everyone I know thought so apart from a few people who didn't but they are mistaken for various reasons I can't get into at the moment (outing). One of these people was person A who is the SIL of my BIL's friend person B (legitimate breeder, no puppy farms), and it wasn't the first time that this had happened to person C, unrelated. Maybe I should just LTB.

I felt that the exclusion was about a personality clash and the teacher has got it in for DS. He is a sweet boy despite being boistrous and a bit of a livewire (NT, but diagnoses welcome). But to be clear they have been parking there every single day at drop off. Engines running. And it's not ever their hedge.

If you think IABU I can add in a few more posts later about my MIL, finances, and a diagram done with a biro that nearly doesn't work.

For clarity we earn £100,000 each and can afford it.

AIBU?
(Only YANBU answers please)

OP posts:
KaleidoscopeEars · 15/03/2021 09:30

Your lived experience is completely irrelevant because I have’t experienced the same thing. It can’t be possible that your problem is actually a problem because I don’t have that problem.

BonnieDundee · 15/03/2021 09:30

Dont you fucking tell me to #BeKind

Fuck sake!

#FuckingArsehole

Sparklingbrook · 15/03/2021 09:41

Everybody pipe down. OP hope you're ok hun. xx

Elledouble · 15/03/2021 09:41

I advance searched you OP and on the 32nd of Maytember you said you had a badger sanctuary, but now apparently it’s a hedge? WHICH IS IT?!

MrsBobDylan · 15/03/2021 09:47

Op you are bu because you have used a double reversed sub-conjunctive noun verb in place of a pronoun conjunction pre-preposition adjective.

HTH.

BillMasen · 15/03/2021 09:48

Announcing this again as you didn’t all stop and listen last time

Man Here! Let me tell you how to solve this...

SoupDragon · 15/03/2021 10:03

RTFT!

heronsinflight · 15/03/2021 10:09

So many people like to say they "have anxiety" when what they really mean is that they are just shy.

Legoninjago1 · 15/03/2021 10:12

@BonnieDundee

Dont you fucking tell me to #BeKind

Fuck sake!

#FuckingArsehole

Yeah I can't believe she said that to you! Particularly after you drew such a detailed parking diagram.
GreatTeaMonkey · 15/03/2021 10:15

Well that was a drip feed. Hmm

AdaThorne · 15/03/2021 10:19
  1. NOW. And I'd cancel the cheque.
LaceyBetty · 15/03/2021 10:24

Neither of you has covered yourself in glory here.

HeronLanyon · 15/03/2021 10:24

There’s been good advice up thread op. Not sure why you aren’t connecting with it. You seem very set in your thinking. Until you start to hear what we’re all saying you’ll find it difficult to move on I think.
Good luck. Oh and well done Re the lost weight and ignore that tosser - he doesn’t deserve you.

BonnieDundee · 15/03/2021 10:32

Wont someone think of the donkeySad

HerculesMulligann · 15/03/2021 10:34

OP - you ate breakfast, lunch and dinner in one day?! I eat one meal a day (mainly a huge salad), anything more than that and I feel bloated for at least a month.

Silverandgoldsparkles · 15/03/2021 10:37

You should be bloody grateful to have a free NHS. I can't believe all these suggestions to call 101.

Judashascomeintosomemoney · 15/03/2021 10:38

If it was that serious, I don’t think you’d be wasting your time posting on MN, you’d be too ill to move your typing finger......

MistressoftheDarkSide · 15/03/2021 10:38

I can send you a link to buy a silicone pooh knife that is dishwasher safe if it would help?

(Am still boggling in RL that this is a thing btw. Dishwasher safe?? EEEEWWW)

Silverandgoldsparkles · 15/03/2021 10:41

You should never have gotten a donkey in the first place. Ridiculous. I despair.

couchparsnip · 15/03/2021 11:09

Read the OP! I can't believe all these people commenting clearly who haven't read it in detail.
I'm sure you're right OP. You sound lovely Flowers

BigPaperBag · 15/03/2021 11:12

Do you have a penis beaker?

pintsizeprincess · 15/03/2021 11:15

The donkey has to go though. What were you thinking on your meagre budget.? We can't possibly comment until we see a total breakdown of everything you've bought since 1989. With diagrams.

Silverandgoldsparkles · 15/03/2021 11:21

I can't believe someone is advising to get rid of the donkey. Sell your hedge OP. A donkey is for life (I should know, I vowed in sickness and in health 27 years ago. We're together 400 years).

truetuesdays · 15/03/2021 11:27

Is this a safeguarding issue?

Legoninjago1 · 15/03/2021 12:38

Anyway. OP's gone quiet. Too many home truths I guess.