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To think that a photo opportunity in a school with a black woman does not make you racist.

92 replies

Lastfreakinglegs · 11/03/2021 18:03

Visiting a school and chatting with a black teacher does not undo the damage.

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toffeebutterpopcorn · 12/03/2021 08:38

But she never googled him!

Nuttagblz · 12/03/2021 08:42

This is why the person who has been alleged needs to be brought to light and all the context and the circumstances. Many of the RF will now be under the shadow of it, and it affects everyone even the children of the RF. I wonder at the reasons behind making the statement but not naming the name, what could they hope to achieve, do they not care about the mental health of others who have not made the statements?

toffeebutterpopcorn · 12/03/2021 08:44

Keep up the public interest... keep the storey rolling.

porridgecake · 12/03/2021 08:47

This kind of silly comment is counterproductive because it lowers the tone of the whole conversation.

Clarinet1 · 12/03/2021 08:50

OK, so what would people be saying if W and K had said (without giving a reason) "We don't want to meet any black people?"!!!!

Also, agree with other posters that this visit will probably have been planned long ago and that you would have a hard job finding a London state school without a lot of BAME staff.

Norwaydidnthappen · 12/03/2021 08:52

Ridiculous. They were always going to visit the school, the teacher just so happened to be black. They aren’t racist, I do think other members of the RF are but have no evidence to suggest Kate and William are.

NormanStangerson · 12/03/2021 08:53

@Lastfreakinglegs you’re the only one who has reduced that woman to her colour.

Visits are planned months in advance (security and routes take ages to arrange) and so you’ve actually denied her achievements to make her nothing more than a person of colour for a RF photo op.

Truelymadlydeeplysomeonesmum · 12/03/2021 09:23

@Lastfreakinglegs

Visiting a school and chatting with a black teacher does not undo the damage.
You have issues. Maybe a rasicim awareness course would help you. Can't be bothered to read your thread. Get help if all you see is colour of the people in the photo. It is about the work of the school in a pandemic and them having a little boost by a royal visit.
thebabessavedme · 12/03/2021 09:54

Of all the prominant royals I would think W&K the least likely to be racist, they are young, well informed and very well educated and have the responsiblity of bringing up a future King who will need to be absolutley inclusive - I think the OP is pretty offensive.

thebabessavedme · 12/03/2021 09:56

And very offensive to the professional who you think has allowed herself to be wheeled out as 'the token black'.

lioncitygirl · 12/03/2021 09:59

oh dear - OP, youve made yourself look a complete idiot here....

HotPenguin · 12/03/2021 10:18

Agree with what pretty much everyone else said on this, plus there's some very simplistic thinking in this thread which suggests the world is divided into "racists" and "not racists".

The reality is that there are lots of racist mindsets and ways of thinking in our culture and many if not all of us are affected by these and as a result we probably all make some racist assumptions or say some racist things which we may not even be aware of.

If prince William wants to try and counteract racism my visiting BAME communities and hearing about their experiences then good for him, why should he be accused of "pretending not to be racist"? There are quite a lot of BAME people in London so it's quite likely he will meet BAME people in the line of his work even if he doesn't make a special effort to do so.

EveryDayIsADuvetDay · 12/03/2021 10:22

Did Harry dress up as a Nazi before or after he met Meghan?
Not anti-German then.

FuckingFabulous · 12/03/2021 10:32

I hope you stretched before this reach, or you could do yourself some damage.

OnlyheretovoteonAIBU · 12/03/2021 10:36

ODFOD

IAcceptCookies · 12/03/2021 10:49

Sorry, black member of SMT, you'll have to hide when W&K come to visit, because them talking to you is racist, apparently. Confused

Utterly stupid post.

FireflyRainbow · 12/03/2021 15:10

Your ridiculous. Yes YABU

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