A woman came into the lives of myself and three friends around four years ago. She was quite pushy and made it clear she wanted to join our small circle. We didn’t mind - at first that is - as she shared many of our values and appeared friendly. As time went on though, this woman became an encumbrance and it was clear she had a massive chip on her shoulder: martyred, continually complaining, rude, and just plain offensive doesn’t come into it. Frankly her presence was draining and we were all tired of hearing about the bitter blows life dealt her despite our efforts to do nice things for her with no thanks. Since lockdown, not having her in our lives has been an utter relief but we are all dreading the time when restrictions are lifted because she will appear once again in our circle. We would like to tell her to just ‘Sod Off’ but as she was introduced to us by a friend whom we hold in high regard this is going to be difficult without offending the friend. AIBU to tell this woman to sod off? What would you do?