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AIBU?

to think this woman behaved like a snotty cow and there was no need for this?

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Lludmilla · 27/02/2021 16:21

This has really annoyed me and I thought I’d canvas some opinions.

Just been out in my car, mainly to keep it ticking over so the battery doesn’t go flat, which tends to happen now I’m wfh. Part of my route took me along narrow country roads - no footpath or even a verge in places.

So I’m approaching a hump-backed bridge, with one car in front of me. Couple coming towards me on foot, pushing a double buggy. I thought to myself, surely that’s a little risky on narrow/pavement-less roads like this (being as there are always people around who drive like arseholes), but didn’t make eye contact with them or take any further notice of them. One car in front of me, starting to swing clear of the couple with the buggy, I started to do the same. So far, no problem.

Then a car appeared coming over the h-b bridge in the opposite direction forcing traffic going my way to start reversing. At which point I sighed and muttered something to myself, not because anyone was doing anything wrong but because I’d already had a few tricky ‘passing’ scenarios on the same journey, and I was beginning to regret taking a ‘rural’ route so to speak.

Again, no attention paid to the couple, who were passing my car by now, I wasn’t sighing or muttering at them, I was just frustrated in general.

Then the car in front of me started reversing rather too quickly, to the point where I had to sound my horn in warning as there was a real chance they’d hit me before I had chance to start reversing myself.

The reversing car stopped and I looked over my shoulder before starting to reverse.

At which point I became aware that Buggy Lady had turned around and was staring in the direction of my car and gesticulating with an angry look on her face, clearly assuming I’d sounded my horn at her. Didn’t engage in any way, but as I was waiting for the car coming the other way to pass, I could see through my rear-view mirror as she eventually turned back the way she was going, walking very huffily from what I could tell (her ponytail was swinging like mad, if that doesn’t sound too odd Grin ) for a few steps, then turned back around again and made one of those ‘arms in the air’ gestures, again with a really snotty look on her face.

I mean, WTF?! I can't imagine why she'd have done that other than because she assumed I was sounding my horn at her. And if she did, then she was COMPLETELY BLOODY WRONG - defensive much??!

So:

  1. AIBU to think it wasn’t the safest place to be pushing a double buggy in the first place, and that they’d have been better taking their walk somewhere there was a pavement or at least a verge?

and:
  1. AIBU to think she behaved like an OTT arsehole with all the looking and the gestures and the conclusion-jumping when I wasn’t even concerning myself with her but with the actual traffic on the actual road???


No vote as it’s a double AIBU, so to speak.
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Lludmilla · 28/02/2021 11:54

@Expectingsomethingwonderful

You are unreasonable:

  1. What don't you understand about STAY AT HOME
  2. Your horn probably scared the baby
  3. Don't drive on narrow rural roads if you don't need to
  4. It is to be expected that rural roads are full of walkers, cyclists and horses

If you can't be arsed to RTFT I certainly can't be arsed re-addressing points I've already addressed.
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AndOffFlewMyLastFuck · 28/02/2021 12:57

I don't think to had a choice, you had to sound your horn. Who knows why she was cross, I don't know why you've referred to her as a snotty cow though

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UhtredRagnarson · 28/02/2021 13:10

I think it’s clear from the original post that Op was irritated by this couples presence from the moment she spotted them. She didn’t think they should be there with their double pram and despite her exaggerated efforts to assure us she didn’t make eye contact is suspect she did and looks were exchanged before any horns were beeped.

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hobbyiscodefordogging · 28/02/2021 13:42

YABVU, and you seem a bit snippy that we haven't all joined you in bitching about a woman with a swinging ponytail.

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SwedishK · 28/02/2021 14:04

I can totally sympathise with the woman with the pram. It's scary enough when you have to walk along those types of roads, the last thing you need is someone honking their horn when you are passing their car. It's incredibly loud when you are not in a car yourself.

If you want to be angry at anyone, you should direct it to the person in front of you who started reversing too fast.

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Lludmilla · 28/02/2021 14:25

Thanks to everyone who has made constructive comments on this, even those who disagreed with how I reacted. However, it seems a few on here are determined to read their own interpretations into everything I say/twist things to suit their assumptions, without actually bothering to read my posts properly, and I'm not interested in wasting my time on that.

I won't be engaging further with this thread.

Enjoy your day.

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NiceGerbil · 28/02/2021 16:22

Lol OP.

Enjoy your flounce!

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