Long story short and I don't want to talk to anyone irl. NC for this as I have lots of fr ends on here .
So as not to dripfeed, my exh had an affair under my nose for a year and I never realised . He left. That was nearly two years ago .
I am in a relationship of six months, probably the most equal cherishing one I've ever had however I've just seen, through a suggested friend on insta , that he has liked a post of a beautiful model.. well rather a self portrait painting.
When I met him initially I noticed that he did this to one or two other 'artists'. At that time he commented ... stunning or hot etc. I explained that I found this to be creepy and sleazy . We disagreed but he accepted that these were boundaries for me .
There has been no activity since until a few days ago. Same artist . No comment. Just a like. I accept thatI have been terribly hurt in the past but also accepted t that in order to trust again, I need to trust again.
I also noticed that during our relationship while exchanging birthday wishes on another social media platform that he responded to a very recent ex with a love heart. This was the only love heart he used when responding to the very many wishes . She finished a few months before we met as she wasn't ready to be in a relationship .
Am I being utterly ridiculous or is this normal after my experiences and also wwyd. We speak regularly of the future and as far as we are concerned , we are committed . Spend all our free time together through covid etc . No other flags . Thanks