Meet the Other Phone. Flexible and made to last.

Meet the Other Phone.
Flexible and made to last.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

Degree educated but won't go for managerial jobs

177 replies

MiaMarshmallows · 20/02/2021 18:05

Anyone else know someone like this? This person is a family member. None of my business I know but I do wonder.
She is degree educated, has health issues and made redundant from a job she had been in for years (Well below her skill set but she loved it.)
Just feel she is really doing herself a disservice and feels like it's lack of confidence more than anything.

OP posts:
BooUrns · 21/02/2021 15:52

This thread has actually made me feel better about my job, which is not a managerial one, but more the ‘bread and butter’ work in my particular sector. It’s very competitive and I was so pleased to be offered the job I have - I’m good at it and I really enjoy it! Admittedly it would be lovely to earn more but it’s only now (at 35!) that I’ve realised I’m happy with this work and that managing people/money/projects wouldn’t make me happy and there’s nothing wrong with that. My personality is suited to what I do - I would feel painfully uncomfortable managing people, I don’t like conflict and find it really awkward to delegate work to people in case they object/disagree with the work (I’ve done this in a previous role in a small capacity with volunteers).

rainbowunicorn · 21/02/2021 16:07

She may be perfectly happy doing what she enjoys. Not everyone wants to be a manager or in a senior position at work. Perhaps she just wants to go to work, get paid and not worry about everything that comes with a more senior position.

You are coming across as very invested in her life. Why not just concentrate on yourself and mind your own business.

New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Swipe left for the next trending thread