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To ask how often you have sex with DP/DH?

58 replies

Momtot · 18/02/2021 20:01

That’s it really.. how often do you do the deed and how long have you been together?

We used to have sex most days but it’s got less with each child, down to about once every fortnight if we’re lucky 😂🤞🏻

OP posts:
Userguaranteed · 18/02/2021 20:10

Once every 2-4 hrs. Double on weekends. We both work from home solely for this reason. Got to keep the wheel turning.

Userguaranteed · 18/02/2021 20:11

Oh we've been together for 60years but we have a Benjamin Button situation going. Only we've stopped at the teenage phase. So life is good.

Lockheart · 18/02/2021 20:12

YABU. Try asking in the sex topic.

SillyBub · 18/02/2021 20:12

Wow! This thread has literally never come up on here before! Let alone in the last few days! Hmm

WonkyCactus · 18/02/2021 20:12
Grin
Unhomme · 18/02/2021 20:13

With DW, once a week.

With DGF, twice a week

ThatchersCold · 18/02/2021 20:13

I’m in a LDR and it can be anywhere from a couple of weeks to a couple of months in between seeing each other. So most days, none. And then when we see each other (usually for around a week) we’re at it like rabbits and it’s about 10-15 times a day to make up for the drought Grin

VodselForDinner · 18/02/2021 20:15

@Unhomme

With DW, once a week.

With DGF, twice a week

Wow. Fair play to your grandfather.
MiddleClassMother · 18/02/2021 20:17

Most days!

Furgggggg12 · 18/02/2021 20:18

Vodsel GrinGrin

ZackaryQuack · 18/02/2021 20:21

When we feel like it. Could be every day, or nothing for a couple of months.

OutingMyself · 18/02/2021 20:22

@Userguaranteed

Once every 2-4 hrs. Double on weekends. We both work from home solely for this reason. Got to keep the wheel turning.
What?! 😆
HTH1 · 18/02/2021 20:22

DP - twice a day.

DH - twice a week (plus birthdays).

Shehasadiamondinthesky · 18/02/2021 20:25

Never...yuck. I hate sex.

StarsShiningUpAboveYou · 18/02/2021 20:26

About 3-4 times a week. We've been together 11 years. Sex is still just as amazing as it ever was

OutingMyself · 18/02/2021 20:27

@StarsShiningUpAboveYou

About 3-4 times a week. We've been together 11 years. Sex is still just as amazing as it ever was
I've never managed anything like that in a relationship. How do you think you've kept it like that?
Thehop · 18/02/2021 20:29

Once a week

BakedTattie · 18/02/2021 20:29

Once every couple months. Together 16 years. Just can’t be arsed, too tired.

Pizzaandgarlicdip · 18/02/2021 20:31

Also interested in how you maintain 3-4 times a week!
We could really do with reigniting the passion somehow. I just can’t be bothered anymore and we’re down to once a fortnight

Caramel81 · 18/02/2021 20:33

3 times a week on average. Been together 5 years. Both in our 30s. We don’t have kids though so I’m sure that must make a big difference due to energy levels.

EarringsandLipstick · 18/02/2021 20:37

@Userguaranteed

Once every 2-4 hrs. Double on weekends. We both work from home solely for this reason. Got to keep the wheel turning.
😂😂😂
MarmedukeDuke · 18/02/2021 20:40

@Unhomme

With DW, once a week.

With DGF, twice a week

Grin
MarmedukeDuke · 18/02/2021 20:41

Once a week/fortnight. Unless we've eaten a big meal/something good on tv/football on/too much wine/grumpy/tired/clean sheets/period/cat is in the room.

BabyBee93 · 18/02/2021 20:46

Everyday! We've always been very intimate and I so hope it never changes Blush

cookiedoughsweetiepie · 18/02/2021 20:48

Every day that we are together. Usually five nights a week. Together five years. Four kids in total-none together. Evenings. Mornings if tired the night before.