I responded a few pages back and I promise it wasn’t to brag or make people feel depressed - I am sorry if I did.
I pointed out on mine that inheritance got me my home. Not outright, by no stretch. If I stay single, on the current rate, don’t hit financial disaster, don’t borrow anymore and don’t move again it will be paid off in 19 years.
The OP asked a question and some people raised their circumstances surrounding their situation. I’m in my position of my “only” debt being my mortgage, yes, due to inheritance, including loosing a parent young therefore a generation was skipped. I would rather have my family back.
I threw some of the inheritance at my student debt because otherwise it would just be hanging over my head. Money in a black hole. I know I was lucky to clear that.
I don’t have a car (I can’t have a car) and that’s a big expense for most which saves me a fortune. Car cost, petrol, tax, insurance.....
Swings and roundabouts though. It also limits my job prospects. But sadly that choice is not mine.
My savings have taken years. I resent the extremes of being told I haven’t worked for what I have. I’ve worked hard and been underpaid my whole working life like so many people and have done my best. My inheritance got me my house but my work and saving got me everything in it (slowly) and got it into a much better state than the shell it initially was. If I didn’t work I would be as stumped as the next. I’m in the independent sector and the pandemic has made me bloody nervous of what I could loose. I’ve been redundant before. It’s scary. I had nothing in the bank when that happened. I’ve been there.
I don’t judge anyone for debt. If I hadn’t have had inheritance god only knows what position I would be in despite working full time since graduating and part time since 16. I would have had to move areas (good old south east) and probably wouldn’t have stuck with Early Years (now a teacher though).
The way the cards are dealt in this life are not fair. Money being passed down, jobs being handed out through nepotism, bad landlords, job loss, health. I would rather people who are doing amazingly well for their age just be honest and say “yes I inherited” “yes my parents gave me my deposit” “yeah my parents gave me their second home rent free so I could save”. Honesty isn’t bragging if they can see that they wouldn’t have what they have without it. It is bragging if they suggest everyone just does the same or ignores their position.