Those who don’t wish to donate, how would you feel of your child needed a donor? Would you just accept it or decline? You do know it’s not just a case of saying “your son will need a transplant so we’ll put him on the list now to wait for an organ.”?
If someone is considered to need a transplant there has usually been some level of illness before that stage is reached. But even in the event of sudden illness there are numerous tests to undergo before going on the list is agreed. Because there are factors which mean that someone may not be eligible for a transplant.
Case in point, in 2019 I was seriously ill and there was talk of sending me down to the transplant centre to be put on to the urgent list. For reference, the urgent list is for patients who are going to die imminently without a transplant. However before that could happen I had to undergo a number of tests, one of which is something called a right heart cath test where they insert a probe into your lungs through a neck line and measure the lung pressure. If the pressure is too high then that means a transplant would not be considered because with escalated lung pressure the heart will arrest as soon as the patient is taken off the bypass machine and the heart is connected to the lungs.
On that occasion my pressure was too high, and I was told that I would not be considered for transplant and that my only option was to go home and live out the rest of my life.
Enter my new consultant who put me forward for other tests for procedures which would increase my chances of my pulmonary pressure reducing, increase my quality of life and hopefully make me eligible for a transplant in the future.
Over the past just under 2 years my pressures have come down,my quality of life has increased, but I am still under the transplant centre and I always will be. But now I am in a position that my progress can be monitored carefully, so that if I begin to regress, treatments can be given which will mean it is more likely I will be able to have a transplant. But even then, I will still have to undergo all the tests, including a repeat of the right heart cath test, to check for the likelihood of a successful transplant. And it’s still possible that I may not be eligible, but if I am, then, and only then, will I go on to the list.
And there are numerous factors which can impact on that. Even something as innocuous as having a cold will mean temporary removal from the list Until recovery because transplant equals having to take immunosuppressantsfor the rest of your life, and that is not compatible with recovering from a current infection as well as undergoing serious surgery which you already have a 10% chance of dying from.
I think that if any parent can watch their child go through all that and then turn around and decline a transplant, then that is up to them. However, I suspect that any parent who goes through that in the desperate hope that their child will receive a transplant, is likely to change their view on organ donation during this process anyway. Besides which, as they’re still alive, the thought of them donating their organs is still only a hypothetical, whereas the need for the transplant is real.