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To have expected the plumber to contribute?

136 replies

AmbitiousHalibut · 11/02/2021 09:04

I'm genuinely a bit puzzled here so would appreciate your views.

Last week our plumber came to service our boiler. We've just moved so it was the first service in this house, but he'd been coming to our old house (10 mins away) for years. We've called him out for emergencies in the past maybe a couple of times, but broadly we just see him annually for the service. He's always been very friendly and we chat a fair bit while he's working.

Our new house has a large appliance which is also connected to the gas, so after he'd checked the boiler, and had a quick look around the rest of the house to check the loft tank, bathroom tank etc, he told me he needed to turn off the large appliance to check the gas. I asked (casually) if he knew how to do it because I didn't, and he said yes. It also has instructions written on it, I discovered later.

Anyway, when he went to turn it back on, a valve broke so he couldn't. I called the guy who had serviced the appliance when we moved in a few months ago, and they talked for a few minutes about what had happened. The appliance guy said it was a fairly common problem and a bit of a design flaw, and that he'd come the next day to fix it.

It ended up costing over £200 as the part is crazily expensive. The plumber texted to ask how we'd got on and I said pretty much that. He replied saying something like "ouch, sorry". He then emailed me his invoice for the service, again apologising for adding to my invoices.

AIBU to have expected him to offer to contribute to the repair cost? I texted him to say I was surprised to receive his invoice and had expected at least a conversation about him contributing. I said I didn't expect him to cover the full cost, although I think some people in my position might. He replied very politely but basically saying that his service had highlighted a fault, and that was pretty much that.

AIBU here? I try and treat people fairly and it really bothers me to be at odds with anyone so it's really weighing on my shoulders.

OP posts:
VinterKvinna · 11/02/2021 09:06

Did he break the valve? or would it have broken if anyone had turned it off?

he told me he needed to turn off the large appliance to check the gas.

So he couldnt make your house safe without turning it off, so what would you expect him to do?

He replied very politely but basically saying that his service had highlighted a fault, and that was pretty much that.
I agree with the plumber

Hoppinggreen · 11/02/2021 09:07

It’s not his fault and I don’t think you should expect him to pay.
You asked him to turn it off, it’s not like he was doing anything he shouldn’t and it’s not his fault it broke
YABVU

ChancesWhatChances · 11/02/2021 09:08

Yeah you’re massively being unreasonable here, and you owe the boiler man an apology.

sunflowersandbuttercups · 11/02/2021 09:09

But if he needed to make the house safe, he needed to turn off the appliance.

It's not his fault the appliance has a fault.

hedgehoglurker · 11/02/2021 09:09

YABU

Godimabitch · 11/02/2021 09:09

He didn't break it through negligence, he broke it because it was waiting to break. Your appliance was faulty, not his problem. Cant believed you asked him to pay to fix it. You really should appologise.

unmarkedbythat · 11/02/2021 09:10

Yes, yabu. He replied very politely but basically saying that his service had highlighted a fault, and that was pretty much that. I agree with him. Sorry!

AaronPurr · 11/02/2021 09:10

I can't see how he's at fault. He needed to turn off the appliance in order to check the gas and the valve broke as he turned it back on. From what you've said it seems as though this would have happened regardless of who turned it back on, rather than him doing something wrong to cause the breakage.

I'm sorry it's been a costly experience, but I agree with the plumber.

Crosstrainer · 11/02/2021 09:10

He replied very politely but basically saying that his service had highlighted a fault, and that was pretty much that.

I agree too - he didn’t carelessly break something, he just identified it was faulty.

Takemetothebar · 11/02/2021 09:10

I think you might be talking about an Aga.

If so, parts go all the time, you’ll get used to it. Unless it’s an ancient one, then they are tougher.

SchrodingersImmigrant · 11/02/2021 09:11

If he ripped off some part or smashed something, I would be with you, but no, he shouldn't contribute to this.

Somanysplitends · 11/02/2021 09:12

I'm with the plumber too. Doesn't sound like he broke it through negligence but that it was a design flaw that was going to break anyway.

DavidsSchitt · 11/02/2021 09:13

Oops Blush

Lovethewater · 11/02/2021 09:13

Sorry I agree with the plumber. No suggestion he was negligent and apparently this problem is "fairly common and a bit of a design flaw". You have used him for years so not some unknown chancer!

Knotmyname · 11/02/2021 09:14

Oh that's really cheeky, YAB very, very U, sounds like he handled it well by politely refusing to contribute though.

Splann · 11/02/2021 09:14

YABU! It’s not the plumbers fault in the slightest. I wouldn’t be surprised if he dumps you as a client in future.

Jarstastic · 11/02/2021 09:15

If it’s an Aga something similar happened to me and it’s one of the things about an Aga.

DeloresWw · 11/02/2021 09:15

Not his fault sorry!

bloodyhairy · 11/02/2021 09:17

It is annoying OP, I agree, but I don't think you can ask this of him.

LagneyandCasey · 11/02/2021 09:17

Wow! You are being very unreasonable. A good reliable plumber is hard to find. Don't piss yours off.

AmbitiousHalibut · 11/02/2021 09:17

Goodness. Okay, I stand corrected! This is why AIBU is so useful, I guess.

To be fair, I've never suggested he broke it by being careless, but equally if I broke something at someone else's house I'd offer to help put it right. I really wasn't trying to stick him with the bill, I just assumed he'd offer to help or at least waive his service fee.

I have learned a lot this morning!

OP posts:
wendywoopywoo222 · 11/02/2021 09:18

I don't understand how you think he should pay.
If he had to condemn the boiler for being unsafe would you expect him to contribute towards the cost of a new one ?

TheQueef · 11/02/2021 09:18

Unreasonable I'm afraid.
It sounds a wear and tear event rather than he broke something, neglectful.

SchrodingersImmigrant · 11/02/2021 09:21

Good you are taking it on a chin😁

To be fair, I've never suggested he broke it by being careless, but equally if I broke something at someone else's house I'd offer to help put it right.
You wouldn't though if it wasn't your fault. Or at least owner should absolutely not agree.
Imagine you open a fridge and it goes off because there is a fault and sometimes it breaks when someone opens it. Would you offer to pay for the fridge? You did nothing wrong, it would be unfair to make you pay😁

tttigress · 11/02/2021 09:21

If it's a design fault and he had to turn it to do the work, why should he pay? It is not his fault, assuming he is quite a good/reasonable/trustable plumber I would not make a big deal of it.

I know my mum had difficulty getting a plumber she was keen to work with after here previous plumber moved away.

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