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School Rewards - Love or Hate?

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roseyrose2020 · 03/02/2021 20:20

I know this might be an unpopular view but I hate the homework rewards/certificates they give at school.
I think it really penalises children that have no control over their homework especially primary school.

I was one of those kids who had a really dysfunctional upbringing, I had an alcoholic /heroin addict mother and recovering addict father.
There was so much going on at home that homework was the last think that got done. This wasn't through my choice. As a young child you need parents helping you/prompting you to do it but mine didn't.
I remember the absolute disappointment and shame I used to feel that I never got certificates etc

At my children's primary school they have homework certificates/end of year prizes etc for the children that get all of it done.
But all I feel is for the children that have no chance of ever achieving it through no fault of their own.

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corythatwas · 04/02/2021 09:35

Home learner of the week is just wrong. Even more wrong than awards that are set in school where at least pupils have some chance of getting away from a dysfunctional home setting.

As for attendance awards: I've been that parent with one hard-working eager-to-do-their-best dc with a chronic illness who got penalised for attending medical investigations she was already dreading- and another dc who was lazy as fuck who never did a stroke of work but got delivered into school at the appropriate time every morning by myself or the childminder and was rewarded by the school for this.

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