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How to get rid of my post menopausal fat bum?

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Turmericpie · 03/02/2021 18:03

Just that. It's driving me mad. I've always been petite, exercised lots, eaten well. Post meno, I've put on weight that I can't shift no matter what I do (about 10lb) and not really around the middle...more thighs and bum.

This has happened despite not eating a lot; I exercise - do resistance work mostly - and generally work hard to keep in shape.

But it's so much harder know.

Advice please. It's depressing me

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Lunaballoon · 03/02/2021 18:14

Post menopausal fat does seem to take twice the effort to shift and any excess shows even more on a petite frame.

Are you doing regular squats as part of your exercises? They help to firm things up a bit!

MarshaBradyo · 03/02/2021 18:16

How do you feel about running?

I’m not menopausal yet but I am 47 and it’s the only thing that works when I add low carb

Turmericpie · 03/02/2021 18:23

My bum is pert...I do lots of squats. It' just BIG. Ugh.

I don't like running anymore but maybe I should go back to it.

When you saying you're not menopausal yet BUT....believe me, it's a different beast when it's behind you rather than in front. Things don't happen like they used to

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MarshaBradyo · 03/02/2021 18:26

😫 I already have to run and low carb

Will await the reality of change

Sceptimum · 03/02/2021 18:36

Lots of cardio as well as lots of weights, and watching your processed/sugar carbs. (Not keto - I eat fruit and veg, lentils etc, and I just kept mine under 100grms a day, and it worked very well. I could have oatmeal and a sandwich for lunch if I wanted, for example, but then I would have a dinner than was mainly veg and protein.)

Turmericpie · 03/02/2021 18:48

@sceptimum - thanks. Some questions, if you don't mind...

How much exercise do you do? What's your routine across the week?
Do you have a cal intake per day?
Have you lost weight?

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Sceptimum · 03/02/2021 20:56

I also have a bust thyroid, so weight loss is really really tricky for me, but I have dropped a few kgs, definitely lost inches and regained shape in that area.

  • Running, 20-30 mins 4 or 5 days a week.
  • Yoga/Pilates, 2 sessions a week.
  • Weights or strength class (not recently) twice a week. With the gyms closed here I have lost access to weights. Not having this is really showing up in my arms and belly shape.
  • I also walk with the dogs and the kids several times a day so I am quite active most days.
So two workouts a day a few days a week - often do a run in the morning, and pilates in the evening. Yoga can be pretty low-key - I often watch TV while doing stretches for half an hour.

Calories - I guess I eat about 1,800 a day, more some days. I use the Carb Manager ap to count my carbs and keep them below 100grms most days, but I don't count fruit, most veg, lentil and bean carbs, just the processed stuff - bread, pasta, cereal, milk, anything with sugar added. Try reading "How Not To Diet" - it's a really interesting book on the scientific studies made of various approaches to food and weight loss.
That worked really well for me when I was doing it strictly, and less so the last few months when I haven't been bothering as much. Good luck with it.

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