Been attending a church (before first lockdowns even began) . Made a friend there, a group leader. He told me he has a job, something clever to do with IT ( wasn’t listening to the details to be honest!) which involves him often going on trips to other counties like France, to fix companies IT. Woman at church mentioned he was on benefits and that his shyness means that he’s never worked.
He told me he’d had an ex girlfriend who was a Romany gypsy who was ‘obsessed’ with him and he said she: ‘really looked up to me, I could do anything to her, she’d let me come home and rip her clothes off. She had schizophrenia and one time she just smiled so sinisterly. I felt like throwing her on the floor and exorcising her.’
Woman also mentioned he’s never had a girlfriend and she hopes me and him will get together. ( don’t fancy him).
He visited my house and I’d just moved back in after fleeing in the night weeks before believing that it was haunted/ demonic. ( It was a psychotic episode I have a diagnosis of schizophrenia) I said: ‘now I’ve been treated, diagnosed with schizophrenia and am on my meds, I can’t believe I ever thought this home was spooky, it’s so peaceful, I’ve even got the lovely old church ( not his church) right outside, I’m basically on holy ground!
He said, ‘Actually that old church is very dodgy. They found something evil under there.’
I just laughed because I’m so not scared of that church, my step great uncle was vicar there when I was a child and the ‘evil’ find was just some old bones which has been put in a plague pit, rather than buried properly. They were blessed and reburied. It wasn’t spooky, I just found it interesting as a child.
Aibu to not go back to this church when lockdown ends to avoid this man (he’s 30) or is he just immature telling harmless silly lies? He’s a bit immature, plays constant computer games and into fantasy stuff. (Nothing wring with that though). My support worker is keen for me to go back to that church and says he is just immature, lying to impress me as ‘must fancy me. My cousin said- ‘Don’t go back‘ because I’d struggled to get friendly with anyone else there ( mostly couples) as I’m very shy.