By asking if you always kiss on a first date?

[lovecraftcounty]

I was talking to friends the other day and they were surprised that I mostly kiss on the first date as a rule.my reasoning is I think you need to have a kiss to see if there is any chemistry. if they are a crap kisser I wont want to see them again. If date goes bad I dont bother but otherwise I will go for it if they dont.
So Sorry to ask a personal question but
before covid obvs did anyone else ever snog on the first date?

It’s weird how many threads like this pop up. Some people really think about kissing a LOT on here.

It's not like that.
just wanted to prove to my friends I dont have weird dating habits
I didn't check if this had been asked before.

I’m married but there’s one first date I remember (not my husband) where the guy cheekily found a way to kiss me, I think he sensed the chemistry as we were only an hour or so in and it was a very public place. I loved it and still think about it much more than I should

Is there an element of its a way to sort of seal the deal op? To show them you really fancy them, and sort of hint you might be up for it, (because if you stick your tongue in on date one, they will likely think you’ll go further on date two, men can be shallow like that) so they want to see you again?

It is kinda have a rule that you will do this, it really should be about the chemistry and how you feel about them, so date dependent. It’s also not going to get a relationship if the guy is only coming back becayse he thinks you’re up for it and wouldn’t be involved otherwise.

"It’s weird how many threads like this pop up. Some people really think about kissing a LOT on here."

Maybe they had enough of stories about people kissing/not kissing their husbands.

@Bluntness100
I assume on the way in we will kiss
I dont force myself if I then find them to be a creep or something.
It's not about being up for it. it's a test to see if we have chemistry.
I defo dont want to be seen as trying to seal the deal on date 1.

Not always, totally depends how much I like them. Have been on dates where I’ve never seen them again so definitely didn’t kiss them. Also had first dates where it’s gone all the way...

If I fancied them, I'd fuck them on the first date, never mind kissing them! (But yes, definitely a kiss)

@NuniaBeeswax
I just asked a question I dont want people thinking im a troll