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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

Shortly LTB?

64 replies

FLOTUSA · 09/01/2021 02:13

Posting on here for traffic!
I think my DH is a narcissistic! He has lost his job meaning we will be moving out of the house that comes with it. He won't admit to being wrong ever! He can't take any criticism at all and spouts off about 'fake news' all the time! He can cause rows at the drop of a hat! He goes ape if he loses at anything... I just can't win 🙄 He lies, cheats and doesn't respect woman. People think he is a bore!
I have all my ducks in a row for when I get out! I have to do it for my DS!
I don't find him attractive any more... yellow hair... little hands... orange tan!
Any advice as what to put in my 'Dear John' leaving note?

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FLOTUSA · 09/01/2021 04:29

Sick of this now! The SC won't stop ringing the house phone as DH has broken his mobile throwing against the wall... He was mad at being banned from Twitter! I have left the house phone off the hook to try and get a bit of beauty sleep! I am getting the ball rolling tomorrow to LTB!!!!

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FLOTUSA · 09/01/2021 04:43

And if he says another word about building the bl@@dy wall... I swear I will lose it!

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RizzleDrizzle · 09/01/2021 05:24

@FLOTUSA

Are you on glue? 👆
I’m not the one that willingly and knowingly married a racist disablist sexist fascist six times bankrupt narcasisic sex offender

Then also behaved like a racist disablist facist narc and then expected none of this to come up in a thread about some one you have zero internation of leaving or any desire to leave!

(I get that you wanted a comedic take the piss out of Donald thread, but it’s so disingenuous to pretend that melana is either an innocent victim, or in any way wanting to leave him, she clearly knows which side her bread is buttered and loves him for it)

So yeah your on glue!

FLOTUSA · 09/01/2021 07:22

Calm down Hillary!

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RizzleDrizzle · 09/01/2021 09:29

Nope not Hilary just some one that doesn’t think pretending that some one who’s a nasty vile racist narc is in unhappy in a marriage and is an innocent victim is hilarious

Maybe you should pretend to be rose west or Myra hindley next time!

Iremembertheelderlykoreanlady · 09/01/2021 09:42

That escalated quickly! Confused

FLOTUSA · 09/01/2021 11:14

@Iremembertheelderlykoreanlady I know! Grin...I've touched a nerve there! 😂

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FLOTUSA · 09/01/2021 11:51

I also remember the elderly Korean lady 😀..classic!

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RizzleDrizzle · 09/01/2021 12:33

Yeah yeah no excuse for actually undermining people who genuinely are in abusive relationships by pretending that a vile narc who actually is the key to supporting the husband and backing up his views

snowisfallingallaroundus · 09/01/2021 12:35

@RizzleDrizzle

Yeah yeah no excuse for actually undermining people who genuinely are in abusive relationships by pretending that a vile narc who actually is the key to supporting the husband and backing up his views

Oh jog on.

RizzleDrizzle · 09/01/2021 12:52

Oh jog yourself if you think undermining women who are actually in abusive relationships by pretending a woman that very clearly ISNT is ok!

FLOTUSA · 09/01/2021 13:25

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vodkaredbullgirl · 09/01/2021 14:22

Someone got out the wrong side of the bed this morning.

RizzleDrizzle · 09/01/2021 14:35

I got up on exactly the right side of bed.

I just don’t find pretending someone who isn’t in a abusive relationship is! Partically funny

It’s worse in this case cos it doesn’t take much digging to find that far from being an innocent victim she’s willingly complicit in his abuse of power and dictatorship

vodkaredbullgirl · 09/01/2021 14:40

Did you actually read the post properly, as if Ivanna trump would be posting on here.

RizzleDrizzle · 09/01/2021 16:46

Did you actually read the post properly, as if Ivanna trump would be posting on here

Yes did you read mine properly where it says pretending my isssue isn’t that Melania trump is posting on mumsnet I’m fully aware of it’s not melania, I’m not stupid! My issue is some one is pretending that she is an abusive relationship. She most definately is not! She is entirely complicit and loves him for it.

Also I know Donald has spelt out that he’s like to have sex with his daughter but as far as I know it’s not actually legal to marry your daughter so it definately wouldn’t be Ivanna posting stuff about divorce from Donald he’s her dad!!

FLOTUSA · 09/01/2021 16:50

@RizzleDrizzle...go and boil your head.. And stop making it all about you... You are a barrel of laughs you are! Debbie Downer Moaning Minnie's bugger off! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂

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2beesornot2beesthatisthehoney · 09/01/2021 16:51

Dear OP fuck off , you married him , now own him !
I have as little respect for you as I do him. I haven’t forgotten your remarks about the child immigrants .
You both belong in jail. I will cheerfully lock the door and throw the key away .

FLOTUSA · 09/01/2021 16:54

Anyway.. DH is up and about spouting stuff off on the step kids twitter accounts! 🤐 I am still on writing my Dear John letter to him... Its going to be a long one Grin

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FLOTUSA · 09/01/2021 16:56

@beesornot2beesthatisthehoney....Fake News!

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nimbuscloud · 09/01/2021 17:00

Is this a witty thread ??

FLOTUSA · 09/01/2021 17:08

Sorry no... You will find Chris Witty on the covin thread

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FLOTUSA · 09/01/2021 17:09

Covid... Not covin!... Must be the witches getting me mixed upGrin

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HarrietSchulenberg · 09/01/2021 17:17

If she tried to leave him, do you honestly think he'd let her just walk away? He'd break her, which might be why she hasn't left before. I reckon he's done a good job of convincing her of that aswell. There's complicit and there's nowhere to run to, which are v different.
It's pretty clear that she finds him repulsive.
It's not exactly unusual for abused women to stay with their husbands and pretend to themselves that all is well, is it?

ValidUser · 09/01/2021 17:31

@FLOTUSA I am enjoying your thread. The naysayers are what stop me from seeking advice on here about rapping to my cats.