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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

What's an instant turn off in a man /woman?

56 replies

OhYesYouDidBoo · 27/12/2020 17:16

Following on from the other thread it would be interesting to know..

For me?

Unkindness and cruelty, snobbery.

OP posts:
Cameleongirl · 27/12/2020 17:18

Poor hygiene.

Sandalison · 27/12/2020 17:20

Arrogance and snobbery

Rinoachicken · 27/12/2020 17:20

Pestering for sex / sulking when partner is not in the mood

Sandalison · 27/12/2020 17:21

Oh and bad teeth / breath

1940s · 27/12/2020 17:21

Poor hygiene (sometimes the 'hidden' type such as a previous well dressed boyfriend who rarely brushed his teeth)
Rudeness to waiters etc
Tightness with skipping a round in a group setting and not leaving a tip
Ignorance/ casual racism 'disguised' as a sense of humour

ThroughThickAndThin01 · 27/12/2020 17:22

Yes poor hygiene. And self absorbed.

EckhartLolly · 27/12/2020 17:22

Lack of empathy and respect for others.

PurplePansy05 · 27/12/2020 17:24

Awful nails
Bad teeth
Dirty clothes/shoes

AlohaMolly · 27/12/2020 17:26

Poor hygiene
Vaping
Racism
Arrogance
Misogyny
A string of exes he refers to as ‘crazy’

Undertaker · 27/12/2020 17:27

Over the top noises during sex, does my head in.

Sinful8 · 27/12/2020 17:33

Being too timid

purpleleotard · 27/12/2020 17:34

smoking

PronkWine · 27/12/2020 17:34

Long hair, it freaks me out on a man! Also no hair...

Minecraft4life · 27/12/2020 17:36

Being stingy

SweatyUnderboob · 27/12/2020 17:37

Fussy eating habits akin to a toddler

DillonPanthersTexas · 27/12/2020 17:38

Entitlement
Princess behaviour
Laziness

MaudHatter · 27/12/2020 17:38

Laziness
Lack of intelligence

nextdoorshush · 27/12/2020 17:39

skipping a day showering
neediness

DK123 · 27/12/2020 17:39

Poor hygiene, moodiness, lack of respect for others and their homes, hypocrisy, being judgmental, insults disguised as jokes, blowing hot and cold, everything having to be on their terms so you don't know where you stand.

FoxtrotOscarPoppet · 27/12/2020 17:39

Arrogance
Poor hygiene

Beach11 · 27/12/2020 17:39

Smoking
Tight
Rudeness

OhYesYouDidBoo · 27/12/2020 17:41

Blowing hot and cold. Yes. Can't be done with that.

OP posts:
InFiveMins · 27/12/2020 17:43

Bad teeth

Benjispruce2 · 27/12/2020 17:43

Arrogant, show-off type men.
Men that over groom.
Rudeness
Unkindly

GarlicMonkey · 27/12/2020 17:43

If they're too close to family, especially their mum. Causes split loyalties which leads to resentment & that's a death knoll for any relationship.