Just hate facing in to this period of time, I'd prefer to be working.
On the surface things look fine, all healthy, financially in a very good position, good jobs, lovely kids. We've arrived at a situation where we have different interests, different friends, different bedrooms (I'm lucky to have shit sex twice a month if I push for it). All the smaller thoughtful things seem to be from my side, I just feel totally invisible, never a hug, a kiss, etc.
As soon as DS leaves for college next Sept I'll be moving on, for better or worse. I'm lucky to be able to do that. 
for anyone bad relationships at this time of the year.