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Cava - cavver or carver?

308 replies

StillCoughingandLaughing · 24/12/2020 10:54

Just been on the phone to my mother, who was waxing lyrical about the lovely ‘cavver’ (Cava) she’s bought to go with Christmas lunch. I’ve always pronounced it ‘carver’, with a soft A, and that’s what I hear more often than not, but she’s not alone in her pronunciation, so I have a nagging doubt I could be wrong. Can I get the views of the MN jury?

YABU = Cavver with a hard A
YANBU = Carver with a soft A

OP posts:
pusscatsinblankets · 24/12/2020 16:52

Cah-va

But it should cah-ba

Fauvist · 24/12/2020 16:56

@Hoppinggreen

I am from Yorkshire, I went to visit a friend in London last year and ordered a latte from one of those Artisan places. Wanker Barista said “ do you mean a laarrrrrtay?”. I gave him a small lecture on the meaning and providence of the word latte.
Provenance?! Wink
AfterSchoolWorry · 24/12/2020 17:01

Neither.

It's Kahva

There are no R's in the word cava.

derxa · 24/12/2020 17:03

The reason these threads are a war zone is because most people have absolutely no knowledge of phonetics. The End

camelfinger · 24/12/2020 17:14

I say it like the word car - I don’t pronounce the R in the word “car”. I have a fairly southern English accent. It wouldn’t feel right for meto say ca va as if the a was apple.
I try not to say lah-tay but saying a short a as lattay in an English accent sounds equally silly.
I try not to worry too much - plenty of non-native English speakers don’t pronounce English words correctly e.g. London rather than Lundun but I don’t mind, it’s just an accent.

Hoppinggreen · 24/12/2020 17:18

Fauvist you are correct, unlike bloody auto bloody correct

pusscatsinblankets · 24/12/2020 17:23

swphonetics.com/2013/05/08/rhoticitylancslivman/

StillCoughingandLaughing · 24/12/2020 17:46

There are no R's in the word cava.

There’s no R in the word aga either.

OP posts:
hobbyiscodefordogging · 24/12/2020 18:38

@StillCoughingandLaughing

There are no R's in the word cava.

There’s no R in the word aga either.

Who said there were any Rs in aga? Don't tell me you add them there as well 🙄
TimeFlysWhenYoureHavingRum · 24/12/2020 18:42

I can't believe this has gone on for 9 pages LOL!

HollyandIvyandallthingsYule · 24/12/2020 19:33

If people are adding ‘r’ to aga (whether the sound itself in the spoken word, or the letter in the written word or ‘phonetic spelling’) that is incorrect. There is an established convention for phonetic representation of sounds/words.

JudgeRindersMinder · 24/12/2020 19:35

@DowntonCrabby

I’d say cahvah in my Scottish accent.
Me too, there is no r
HollyandIvyandallthingsYule · 24/12/2020 19:39

(Not commenting on accents being ‘right’ or ‘wrong’, btw)

yelyah22 · 24/12/2020 19:52

Carver for me OP! No distinction in my accent between an 'a' and 'er' ending - farmer and lava end with the same sound etc.

Haggertyjane · 24/12/2020 19:53

Soft a and no r sound

HostaFireAndIce · 24/12/2020 19:59

Oh, for heaven's sake. When people say they pronounce it like 'car-' they aren't saying there is an 'r' in it, they are saying that they pronounce the first syllable in the same way as they pronounce the word 'car'. They don't sound the letter 'r' in the word 'car', like a huge number of English speakers. Do people really not understand this or they just being obtuse?

HostaFireAndIce · 24/12/2020 20:00

*are they just being

LuckyNumberThirteen · 24/12/2020 20:02

Kaa-vuh

HollyandIvyandallthingsYule · 24/12/2020 20:04

@HostaFireAndIce

Oh, for heaven's sake. When people say they pronounce it like 'car-' they aren't saying there is an 'r' in it, they are saying that they pronounce the first syllable in the same way as they pronounce the word 'car'. They don't sound the letter 'r' in the word 'car', like a huge number of English speakers. Do people really not understand this or they just being obtuse?
Then they should use the established convention for pronunciation, which I believe in that case would be ‘ah’ (or whatever the case may be). Not borrow an r from a random other word.
HollyandIvyandallthingsYule · 24/12/2020 20:09

Sorry meant not just borrow an ‘ar’ word to try to illustrate it.

But I suppose part of the problem is that people really don’t use the established dictionary pronunciation guide anymore. Most people probably don’t even know it exists.

HostaFireAndIce · 24/12/2020 20:11

It would be easier if they used the established convention, yes, but they're not 'borrowing an r from another word' as I said, they're explaining how they pronounce it i.e. like the word 'car'. They have non-rhotic accents, like the majority of English speakers in England, and don't pronounce the word 'car' with an audible 'r' sound.

HostaFireAndIce · 24/12/2020 20:12

Sorry, reading that back, I sounded crosser than I meant to!!

MeringueCloud · 24/12/2020 20:12

@DowntonCrabby

I’d say cahvah in my Scottish accent.
Xmas Smile
HostaFireAndIce · 24/12/2020 20:12

I suppose part of the problem is that people really don’t use the established dictionary pronunciation guide anymore

And yes, I agree!

RaraRachael · 24/12/2020 20:13

I can't say it 2 different ways cos the a would just sound the same, Goodness knows how it would ever sound as if it had a letter r in it Confused