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Cava - cavver or carver?

308 replies

StillCoughingandLaughing · 24/12/2020 10:54

Just been on the phone to my mother, who was waxing lyrical about the lovely ‘cavver’ (Cava) she’s bought to go with Christmas lunch. I’ve always pronounced it ‘carver’, with a soft A, and that’s what I hear more often than not, but she’s not alone in her pronunciation, so I have a nagging doubt I could be wrong. Can I get the views of the MN jury?

YABU = Cavver with a hard A
YANBU = Carver with a soft A

OP posts:
Ceejly · 26/12/2020 12:06

This thread has been fucking hilarious.

Ceejly · 26/12/2020 12:06

@StillCoughingandLaughing

There are no R's in the word cava.

There’s no R in the word aga either.

No and you don't pronounce an r in it either.
RaraRachael · 26/12/2020 12:20

Maybe it's to do with regional accents?

I would pronounce cava like lava. I don't get the uh sound at the end or that it has an r sound in it.

Just like lots of people say Wensday but I say Weddensday Hmm

jagoda · 26/12/2020 12:21

Who puts an R in Aga?

Half my family are Scottish and none of them would. The other half have RP accents, so definitely no R.

If someone told me they had bought an Arga/arger I would ask them "What's that?"

RudolphToldRedNoseNotSymptom · 26/12/2020 12:28

British people do pronounce R's where no R exists.
And they don't pronounce R's where they do exist lol.

RudolphToldRedNoseNotSymptom · 26/12/2020 12:31

Take the word water as an e.g.

I've heard 'waw-ah' and 'wa-tah'

Sometimes no T and no R pronounced. Sometimes just no R pronounced.

It seems to be peculiar to certain parts of England especially.

DressingGownofDoom · 26/12/2020 12:33

Some English accents are so weird about Rs. You don't pronounce them half the time then stick imaginary ones in words so you can then not pronounce them either.

RudolphToldRedNoseNotSymptom · 26/12/2020 12:33

Then you have Amandar and pastar as another poster mentioned. No R in the words, but they're pronounced for some reason.

Janegrey333 · 26/12/2020 12:35

@RudolphToldRedNoseNotSymptom

Then you have Amandar and pastar as another poster mentioned. No R in the words, but they're pronounced for some reason.
Indeed. 🙄🙄🙄
RudolphToldRedNoseNotSymptom · 26/12/2020 12:36

I suspect that the English lack of study of other languages may be a culprit.

RudolphToldRedNoseNotSymptom · 26/12/2020 12:37

Spanish must confuse the befuck out of English students lol.

cuppycakey · 26/12/2020 12:38

What kind of regional accent would say Amandar or pastar?

Genuinely never heard this where I live, so interested where it's so usual to insert all these random Rs Grin

RudolphToldRedNoseNotSymptom · 26/12/2020 12:38

Like the OP and her Mum would pronounce either one or two R's in cava.

RudolphToldRedNoseNotSymptom · 26/12/2020 12:39

Listen to Gemma Collins (from Essex). Her accent is baffling. I'm not sure how she manages to spell words with all the R's she adds on.

FiveFootTwoEyesOfBlue · 26/12/2020 12:40

Here you are. Click the little speaker icon to hear the UK pronounciation.
End of debate.
dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/cava

StillCoughingandLaughing · 26/12/2020 12:40

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RudolphToldRedNoseNotSymptom · 26/12/2020 12:41

East Londoners are others who add on random R's

RudolphToldRedNoseNotSymptom · 26/12/2020 12:43

[quote FiveFootTwoEyesOfBlue]Here you are. Click the little speaker icon to hear the UK pronounciation.
End of debate.
dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/cava[/quote]
Some of us have actually studied other languages gasp so don't pronounce things the 'Cambridge' or 'Oxford' way.

RudolphToldRedNoseNotSymptom · 26/12/2020 12:46

I've studied 5 languages other than English, so find language interesting.

The English in general will have only studied English and French at primary.

DressingGownofDoom · 26/12/2020 12:49

@cuppycakey

What kind of regional accent would say Amandar or pastar?

Genuinely never heard this where I live, so interested where it's so usual to insert all these random Rs Grin

I am imagining all of these words in a Bristolian accent.
MrsAmaretto · 26/12/2020 12:49

Goodness @StillCoughingandLaughing there's no need to be so rude.

Your accent is different from many people's in this this thread, that is all.

RudolphToldRedNoseNotSymptom · 26/12/2020 12:51

Well I haven't heard of an Argar either.

I'd be forgiven for thinking it was something exotic like caviar haha

Chemenger · 26/12/2020 12:53

@cuppycakey

What kind of regional accent would say Amandar or pastar?

Genuinely never heard this where I live, so interested where it's so usual to insert all these random Rs Grin

You must have heard drawring, presumably the same people who have chests of draws, they save up the “r”s from drawer to use in drawing.
SionnachRua · 26/12/2020 12:54

@RudolphToldRedNoseNotSymptom

Well I haven't heard of an Argar either.

I'd be forgiven for thinking it was something exotic like caviar haha

I'd have thought of agar plates (Petri dishes). Not really the image they're trying to convey...
RudolphToldRedNoseNotSymptom · 26/12/2020 12:57

they save up the “r”s from drawer to use in drawing.

Lol

Where does it originate from? This mysterious use of R's?