What is an instant turn on to you?

[Heavenly44]

Can be anything

Can't lie a six pack

Long hair.

Jewish.

I always thought there is something to the belief that Jewish men make excellent husbands. I met DH before I became Jewish and before I met him, thought most men I met were dire and not husband material at all. But then I became Jewish and met more Jewish men through DH and socialising... Have never met so many eligible men- smart, educated, good career, respects women, does chores, good looking, eloquent, sense of humour. On the r/s boards, people are always saying that they can't find good men but unfortunately I can't advise them to go to a Jewish singles event or synagogue or Friday night dinner

I have some anecdotal evidence to support this theory. However, I'm Anglo-Catholic and would not be prepared to convert (although neither would I expect him to), so I guess that's out.

Having said that, I'm a world champion commitment phobe and I can't see me settling down, so I guess it's all a tad irrelevant for me.

I kind of think Jewish men would expect someone to convert.

Although I am basing this assertion entirely on Harry from SATC.

It depends lady. I’m a reform Jew married to a non-Jew. No expectation in the slightest that DP would convert. Family expectations can also vary, of course.

Has to be a dark haired well spoken man in a suit.

@Dogand2boys yes basically David Tennant Amen

The way DH smiles at me.... it makes me melt.... 33 years and it still happens....

@EssentialHummus

That’s interesting. May I ask you a question about Judaism? Is there a belief that you are born with all of the knowledge you need in life and that your role/purpose is simply to bring that into the world r have I got it mixed up. I am reading up on it and trying to get a sense of how the faith works in contrast to Christianity where I think the idea is slightly different.

Sorry to derail thread

Long hair, strong forearms and big hands

I do wonder if we are going to see more ‘incidental’ forearms across men’s social media from now on (Instagram, etc) And the professionals. Their marketing teams need to get on it😉

Look what I found

@TheChampagneGalop

Hahahahaha! Good find😊

Bald/balding men. All my celeb crushes are bald and luckily DH has very little hair on his head! Weird I know as most women say hair is a massive turn on.

Nice shoes/trainers. When I say I nice I mean smart and clean.
Eyes, especially green ones.
Strong back and shoulders.
Ginger hair.

Henry Cavill

A serious expression.

I asked my partner what he finds attractive in a guy.

Passion for something (unless its something shit like airfix)
Not racist, sexist etc.
Someone with hobbies.
Good personal hygiene.
Treats other people well (especially wait staff)
Non-white (hes now worried he is racist 😂).
Rugby player physique/thick thighs and bum.
Good leg to body ratio with a perference for shorter torso and longer legs.
Good head of hair.
Facial hair
Small ears but specifically small earlobes (oddly specific).
Good cook.

His dream man is Alvise Rigo, who he has basically just described.

@SimonJT
we now know what you look like

You’ve not seen the size of my ears, if I tilt my head south west I get pretty good Sky reception.

@SimonJT yeah but apart from that, do you bear a passing resemblance to alvise?

[quote wizzywig]@SimonJT yeah but apart from that, do you bear a passing resemblance to alvise?[/quote]
Facially yes, from the neck down sadly not!

I’m confused. Are you male @SimonJT?

@Janegrey333

I’m confused. Are you male *@SimonJT*?

Simon is a very regular poster and, I believe, is a gay man.