YABU
Sorry, the issue is you, not them. They're offering a good thing, you're having a bad reaction to it. So much that it "turns your stomach". Wow. Also you said "I felt shit reading the same posts over and over and have deleted FB tonight because of it." Reflect on that and why it's really making you feel like this, you feel "like shit" because people are offering to do something good for others. Maybe you feel guilty, bad, jealous, bitter, or inadequate because you're not doing it, or something like that and/or you're too busy and stressed enough yourself. You don't have to do it, and if you can't it's not your fault. You don't need to attack others for it though and post a thread to try to get others to attack them.
As others have said to those saying they should do it privately or "quietly"... Um, they can't do it privately. What do you expect them to do... be psychic? Or send a private message to everyone in their village or on the net to ask if they need presents?LOL! Obviously they need to ask it publicly (in their village facebook group) for all (in their village etc) who may need to see, then anyone who needs anything contacts them privately. Like when you're selling something you post it publicly so all who may be interested can see, not private message everyone in the group/internet to see if they want it, lol.
I thought it was odd you had a problem with it when I just thought it was strangers asking other strangers if they needed help because they were poor (like Tamara Ecclestone did) or because of covid rules, now I'm reading again and your other post, I'm finding it even odder that you've got a problem with it when it is just villagers looking out for their fellow villagers if they haven't been able to buy yet and can't go out and buy now because of new covid rules. I am from a village and it's totally normal and lovely to care about each other like that and do things for each other all the time.
For others who have not read, such as:
"NiceGerbil
"The post run won't help anyone.What are they actually offering? What's the point of a public Facebook post? Say I posted it and a friend in I dunno Wales or Greece or USA said great my mum could do with a hot dinner taken round...???Why is it an unpleasant thread? It is bullshit. Without saying what they are offering it's just random bollocks.Going and helping at a fucking food bank or something would be actually useful. Or asking neighbours if they need anything. Are they ok. Actual tangible stuff.What are they actually offering???"
THEY ARE ASKING PEOPLE IN THEIR VILLAGE, who include strangers, ON THE VILLAGE FACEBOOK GROUP or whatever, to contact them privately if they need gifts for their kids if they HAVEN'T BEEN ABLE TO GO OUT TO BUY YET AND DUE TO NEW COVID RULES RESTRICTING SHOPPING NOW THEY CAN NOT GO SHOPPING. That's all. It's not that big of a deal. It shouldn't hurt people to see that. It's good that people are behaving like they live in a community. By the sounds of it it's not clear if this is a totally charitable thing or if they'll be paid back for it, maybe they will.
Anyway, it's a lovely thoughtful thing to do and if anyone has a problem with it the issue is with the person/people who has the problem with it, not the person/people doing a kind thing. It says more about you than them. There should be some term for people who find fault with people doing something kind and come to post threads about it for some reason, then other people with the same mentality respond with bitterness in their weird judgemental misery.
Some people want to help others and are able to. You don't need to consider it a personal attack if you are not doing it, or if you can't.
Merry Christmas.