I’ve just found out DH has been in contact with someone from our past that he knows I would have a bit of an issue with. It’s not so much that he’s been in touch with them, but that he’s hidden it from me for years.
There’s history, this person was family but isn’t anymore, think estranged brother in law. I’ve not been in touch but he has remained in touch and hidden it from me.
I don’t want to sound like a control freak, I’m not, he sees who he likes and when he likes, but it’s a bit different with this individual. I can’t say because it would be outing. The person did help my DH before and he claims that it was loyalty to them that made him stay in touch. What about loyalty to me? I feel betrayed.