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Breakfast

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nancybotwinbloom · 13/12/2020 10:30

Getting a bit pissed off with my DH being a martyr and this non event has now made him pissed off with me.

Him: do you want bacon and eggs

Me: no thanks I will just make toast in a bit

Him: Twenty minutes later comes in with a massive plate of bacon and eggs etc and says here you are

Me: no thanks I said I didn't want any

Him: just eat it

Me: no I said I didn't want any you have it

Him: no go on have it

Me: I said already twice I didn't want it.

Him: goes downstairs with it and I can hear him passively aggressively scraping it in the bin and sighing.

For a start why can't he just listen to what I say?
Who uses fucking bacon lardons on a breakfast? Except maybe in an omelette.

If he wanted to make me something why didn't he just make toast like I'd said I was going to make myself.

I probably sound ungrateful but this happens a lot. He asks me if I want x y etc and I say no and he goes on and on about it and eventually I end up snapping and saying FFS I've said no.

He then acts all hurt and sad because I've snapped at him.

I don't even know what I am asking. I'm
Just annoyed he doesn't listen, annoyed he's wasting food, annoyed with him being pissed off with me for refusing to eat something I said I'd didn't want in the first fucking place.

OP posts:
LouiseTrees · 13/12/2020 10:35

Just say, I’m trying to be healthy. If you are going to make something could it be bloody healthy?

nancybotwinbloom · 13/12/2020 10:48

I am trying to be healthy.

OP posts:
smeerf · 13/12/2020 11:02

Are you underweight? Is he worried you don't eat enough? Can't understand his behaviour otherwise.

Or, are you losing weight and becoming more attractive? And he's trying to sabotage you?

nancybotwinbloom · 13/12/2020 11:14

No I am definitely not underweight. I'm actively trying to lose weight. I'm
Going to go cut out meat
After Christmas and I'm going to try a more plant based diet once I've gotten used to no meat, hopefully at the beginning of Feb.

It can be anything it's not just with food.

Food is the main issue though.

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GoldfishParade · 13/12/2020 11:16

Bacon and eggs alone are way better for you than toast. Toast is just empty stodge

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