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To think this chap is a bit of an arse? OLD

82 replies

PeanutButterCheesecake · 11/12/2020 17:53

Just to be clear, I've never messaged him. This is his way of introducing himself.

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OP posts:
WorraLiberty · 11/12/2020 18:27

If you're profile says nothing about the things he's mentioned, he must've got you confused with someone else somehow?

acatcalledjohn · 11/12/2020 18:29

With those spelling mistakes it's highly likely he is a high flying psychoanalyst.

I mean, I totally trust his diagnosis. How can you not? Grin

WitchesSpelleas · 11/12/2020 18:29

Clearly thinks because he's got big muscles women will swoon over him even if he's a total wanker.

Er ... no, mate. That's not how it works.

ladygracie · 11/12/2020 18:30

Please just send back YOU’RE & no other words. What an absolute arsehole.

LilyMumsnet · 11/12/2020 18:31

Hi OP

Whilst we think that this bloke is an absolute cockwomble, the images do show his personal photo and username. We're going to have to remove this thread now, but please do repost with this info blurred/cropped out. Flowers

Knittedfairies · 11/12/2020 18:32

He's not a 'bit' of an arse; he is a complete arse.

MoreKnackeredThanYou · 11/12/2020 18:33

Interests : making people smile 😂😂

He sounds an absolutely ideal boyfriend OP, snap him up quickly before I do

NuniaBeeswax · 11/12/2020 18:33

Reply with "you're*"

Then block

corlan · 11/12/2020 18:34

From the looks of him, he's got 'roid rage.'

MzHz · 11/12/2020 18:36

No, mnhq, the world needs to know that this prick is out there!

It’s practically a public service

SilverOtter · 11/12/2020 18:36

Sounds like he's taken your profile literally!🤣

MzHz · 11/12/2020 18:36

wonder why he’s single...

Wiglio · 11/12/2020 18:36

His message accuses you of not being happy
And someone who writes like he does is?

LilyMumsnet · 11/12/2020 18:37

@MzHz

No, mnhq, the world needs to know that this prick is out there!

It’s practically a public service

It physically hurts to remove it, but sadly we must.
acatcalledjohn · 11/12/2020 18:38

@LilyMumsnet Can't you just edit the picture on the OP'a behalf?

MzHz · 11/12/2020 18:38

Noooooooooooo.....

Xmas Shock
scoobydoo1971 · 11/12/2020 18:38

Projecting...when someone has been criticised themselves, and they are feeling vindictive, they pass those little words of 'wisdom' about themselves onto others in the hope they can validate themselves. For all you know, he may have been diagnosed with bipolar, a personality disorder or he may just have mental health issues that are not recognised or treated adequately. You could feel hatred towards him as just another weirdo on the internet dating apps, or you could just accept he is probably a hugely troubled individual who targets others to feel better about himself. Just feel sorry for anyone who spends precious time sending hateful messages to complete strangers, just how sad must they feel about their life.

MzHz · 11/12/2020 18:39

[quote acatcalledjohn]@LilyMumsnet Can't you just edit the picture on the OP'a behalf?[/quote]

Pleeeeeeaaaase???

knittingaddict · 11/12/2020 18:40

He's just an OLD troll. You get them everywhere. My daughter had one that told her she didn't smile enough. She did, but that's beside the point. Another told her she needed to eat more. They don't want a date. They want a victim.

LilyMumsnet · 11/12/2020 18:40

[quote acatcalledjohn]@LilyMumsnet Can't you just edit the picture on the OP'a behalf?[/quote]
No but if the OP agrees within the next few minutes, I can delete the picture and they can repost it further down on the thread with necessary edits... OP?

SomeoneInTheLaaaaaounge · 11/12/2020 18:41

Mate you are not alone.
Have you seen bye Felipe Instagram. A very decent woman is collecting and publishing all these moronic messages women get in OLD to show what women have to put up with.

MzHz · 11/12/2020 18:41

@LilyMumsnet, remove the pic, type in the content

Extra points if you manage to keep the spellcheck from correcting his waffle

Xmas Wink
WhySoSensitive · 11/12/2020 18:42

I can only assume OP hasn’t replied because she is on a date with this absolute catch of man!

MzHz · 11/12/2020 18:42

@PeanutButterCheesecake do it, do it, do it, do it, do it, do it, do it, do it

:)

MzHz · 11/12/2020 18:43

@WhySoSensitive

I can only assume OP hasn’t replied because she is on a date with this absolute catch of man!
Well of course! There will be a stampede now!