OH tells me his ex who he left for me was wealthy, fit, married and her mother offered to pay him to go away. Why would he tell me 13 years later? Is he hankering? Am I too sensitive? Is he being a total prick and winding me up? This came up a few weeks ago but is clearly still on my mind. Not sure why I posted but perhaps I just needed to thrash it out. Apologies in advance readers. I just think it's really shit behaviour from a 52 yr old who obviously hasn't grown up.