When we have spare money we like to eat out, we don’t drink nor smoke so we like to treat ourselves to takeaway and eating in restaurants. A few people have mentioned we eat out too much and in the next breath complain they don’t have money to eat out (of which they either drink or smoke or both). One of said CF said her kids had been bugging her to go to McDonald’s but she didn’t have spare money yet was with me in the shop when she brought 3 bottles of wine. Surely I should be able to enjoy my hobbie without getting berated When I’m not harming anyone. I don’t really talk about going out to much as I know some of them don’t approve. But kids talk. Aibu thinking What people spend thier own money on is no one else’s business.