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To wish I’d never offered to sort the class teacher gift?

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Lilmzsnowflake · 02/12/2020 17:09

Even before I offered I told myself it was madness.
Then I thought, what’s so hard about collecting money and buying an Amazon voucher and a card to sign? Easy.

No. No it is not. There were the usual complaints about how we should shop local. What interests the teacher has that could be used. Which MLM mums are in the class group and we could support them too.
I said from the start that if Amazon vouchers were ok I would do it, but I’m not traipsing around shops. So far I’ve not responded to any of these suggestions and no one else is offering to take on the job.
I wouldn’t dream of buying clothes or toiletries for someone without knowing their size or preference. Books are great but for someone who reads a lot, chances are they have either read it or have specific genres they like. Food can be a minefield with allergies, diets, preferences.
The teacher in question is lovely and her neighbour, who I am friends with, has said she often takes in Amazon boxes for her. Vouchers seems like a good, if impersonal choice.
AIBU to think I should have just kept quiet?

Please tell me your class gift horror stories to make me feel better! I have another 4 years with dc at the school so I really don’t want to fall out with anyone.

OP posts:
MrsToothyBitch · 03/12/2020 13:48

You can buy more or less whatever you want or need on Amazon. At your own convenience. Sometimes that is more precious than perceived "luxuries".

AccidentallyOnPurpose · 03/12/2020 17:18

One of my kids asked me this week if I drink alcohol. Now they're either ridiculously nosy, or I know what I'm getting for Christmas.Grin

AfterSchoolWorry · 03/12/2020 17:58

@WillSantaBeComingToTown

You wanted to be the tiger mum

Amazon is a crap gift. Carp from a local store is an awful gift. The only acceptable vouchers are John Lewis- if you are at a school that collects for a joint gift that is the basic knowledge required to set your self up as queen bee

John Lewis, Queen Bee 🙄

Amazon is a great gift OP. She can buy herself anything she wants. Trying to buy a personal gift for someone you don't know is impossible.

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