To think I'm too old for this?

[XmasHollie]

Nearly 35. One toddler. One divorce. I'm no longer attractive to the majority of men it seems which is fine. Aibu to feel I'm too old to find happiness and have more kids etc again? I'm never gonna have young love feelings again!

I met my husband at 39 and had a child at 41 and 43. So plenty of time.

My mum meets plenty of chaps at 65! She has good dates and one or two have led to longer term romances, since she was 40 odd.

No one seems to want me lol

Nooo! Not at all! Yes, you will have more baggage and more realistic expectations of love but I see no reason why you can't find someone if you want to. If you don't want to that's fine too. Just because you are Iver 30 doesn't mean most men won't find you attractive.

A toddler takes up a lot of time and attention. It may be slightly less feasible until they are older, in honesty.

I'm lonely

It’s never too late and can happen when you least expect it.
My DM moved into sheltered accommodation a few years after my DF died. At 72ish she met a man who lived in the same building, fell in love and was incredibly happy until he died a couple of years ago.