Been with partner 4 years, no problems in the bedroom we have a good sex life. I saw this morning that there was charges on the phone bill which there shouldn't be, long story short hes been downloading porn. Him and his work mates all went it to each other on a group chat. He lied to my face at first saying he hadnt downloaded anything etc. Now, porn doesnt bother me but the lying and secretly downloading it does. I now feel really insecure, hes said it was nothing and not to worry but I'm so hurt