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to ask how many people you've snogged?

402 replies

kamala4prez · 19/11/2020 23:04

inspired by a response in my earlier thread about being bored of snogging I was surprised that I seemed to have had very few compared to others? For me its 8 -5 boys and 3 girls I thought that was an average amount but apparently not. if its not TMI what about you?

OP posts:
louderthan1 · 20/11/2020 13:43

Hundreds! No idea 🤷🏻‍♀️

I'm also happy to admit that I have no clue how many people I've slept with. I know it's more than 50 and less than 100.

TheBlueStocking · 20/11/2020 13:45

I have no idea, but it's definitely hundreds.

I have never had a one night stand. But love a cheeky snog.

louderthan1 · 20/11/2020 13:47

How old are you OP? I'm 39 and have been single for two years, was in a relationship from 31 to 37 and prior to that was single for five years. So I've had a lot of time!

Bluntness100 · 20/11/2020 13:52

A lot. At school I was voted the girl who had kissed the most boys,. I had a new boyfriend every two weeks. It was my rule, two weeks and you’re out. There was always another in the wings. I’d say from 15 to 18. I didn’t sleep with them or anything more than dates and snogging. In fact I didn’t sleep with anyone till I was 19.

I was well into triple snogging figures by the time I met my husband at 20. And I’ve never snogged a girl, never had any desire to.

SpacePug · 20/11/2020 14:01

I've no idea but probably not that many compared to most. Slept with 8 guys, snogged 2 girls, pulled in a club only 2 or 3 times that I can remember, had a few tinder dates, so maybe 20 different people? 🤔
(I'm 30 and married now)

TheWayOfTheWorld · 20/11/2020 14:01

Ok I will bring the average down Wink

I am in my 40s and have kissed one - yes just one! - person. I was very shy and married my first boyfriend. I do sometimes wonder what it would be like to kiss someone else (amongst other things Grin) but I generally have no complaints.

Terralee · 20/11/2020 14:03

I can't remember oops

Terralee · 20/11/2020 14:04

But I'm sure I enjoyed them all

SpamIAm · 20/11/2020 14:06

God I couldn't even guess at a ball park figure. Could definitely do 8 in a night, although most nights were a far more modest 2-3. Was active between 2006 and 2010, minus just under a year when I had a boyfriend. Feel like I've missed out on Hogmanay though! 😂 That would have been student-me's ideal night out 😂

This thread has made me smile Grin Not that I have even the slightest desire to go around necking strange men now (I dont like shaking hands, even pre-covid) but it was fun at the time. And tbf, I probably had a high enough alcohol content to kill any germs.

GlowingOrb · 20/11/2020 14:06

4

I do find that number shockingly low.

pincertoe · 20/11/2020 14:08

Ive no idea. At uni many nights out would end with a kiss of some random bloke.

Terralee · 20/11/2020 14:11

That was randoms btw not in actual relationships

thepeopleversuswork · 20/11/2020 14:17

Between 50 and 70 I'd say.

Until I was about 30 I actually kept track of this (yes pathetic). Frequency quite diminished in past decades but used to score quite high back in the day.

JustAPassingFashion · 20/11/2020 14:18

Erm... 5 Blush

Spaceprincess · 20/11/2020 14:18

Hundreds.

thaegumathteth · 20/11/2020 14:22

I don't know a figure. I'd guess about 20-30? Been with dh since I was 19 though and obviously haven't snogged anyone since then (20 years ago!!!)

LemonBreeland · 20/11/2020 14:22

I'm another one who snogged multiple guys on nights out when younger. My friends and I would have competitions to see who could snog the most people. Average would be at least 4 per night.

I've slept with less than 10 people though.

Tararararara · 20/11/2020 14:32

Loads. Way to many for me to have kept count.

Over a hundred less than a thousand. Mix of male and female.

Enchantmentz · 20/11/2020 14:42

I wouldn't be able to get an exact number many more snogs have been had than sexual partners, at a guess over 50 and less than a 100. who could be bored of a good snog. Funniest snog/s I will ever remember is me and 3 guys all in the same place and vicinity as each other, all were happy and didn't seem to mindGrin.

BillywigSting · 20/11/2020 14:44

God knows, like pp it wasn't a decent night out without a snog.

In the ballpark of 100 maybe? 50/50 men and women

thetaleunfolds · 20/11/2020 14:46

4

OneLinePlease · 20/11/2020 14:49

I don't know? Maybe 20?

But in the last 15 years just one.

TheoSawUs · 20/11/2020 14:49

No idea precisely how many but definitely in the hundreds.

sugarbum · 20/11/2020 15:02

no idea. I mean only once since 2003. before that, tons

ConorMasonsWife · 20/11/2020 15:16

Absolutely no idea 🤷🏻‍♀️

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