I'm doing some decorating so DH is in charge of DD aged 3.
I've asked DH to go down the road and get a birthday card for someone thus having to take DD with him.
I've been listening to him being played mercilessly for the last half hour by DD who doesn't want to go out as he tries to get her to put her wellies on.
Their currently playing princesses and he's the big bad wolf and you can kind of sense his mounting frustration🤣
YABU - step in and make her behave properly, undermining his parenting skills but get the job done
YANBU - leave him to it as he's in charge of childcare today but accept I'll probably have to get card myself 😂