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Ahh help me - in freak out mode.

624 replies

Whattheactual20201 · 11/11/2020 18:08

Has anyone had what they thought was periods during pregnancy ????
I haven’t been well recently, suppose you could say pregnancy symptoms. My issue is we haven’t actually done the deed in months and I have had what I thought was periods. I have been vomiting a lot/ been bloating and sorry for the tmi but piles came back ( haven’t had them since second pregnancy 7 years ago )
I just took a test this afternoon which has come up as a very clear positive, took another and the same result.
I am so confused right now. I will book an appointment with doctor of course but I’m in completely freak out mode.
It defo wouldn’t be planned I have 2 DC 13 and nearly 7.
Partner and I have been friends for a very very very long time but only started dating 11 months ago.
I don’t know what I am actually asking 🤣

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ForthPlace · 13/11/2020 20:57

What fab news, any names in mind for your little girl. I can't believe how calm you and your DP are.

Tistheseason17 · 13/11/2020 20:57

This thread gets better each time - how exciting- congrats!

BlueSuffragette · 13/11/2020 21:02

Congratulations OP. Nice to read your lovely news. Good luck. Flowers

Whattheactual20201 · 13/11/2020 21:07

@ForthPlace I’m not sure calm is the word I have had a up and down response but to be honest for me the main worry was because of my daughters pregnancy and health when born that I had not had an antenatal care and have drunk an a lot of wine in covid lockdown 🙈 so I think after the shock and being a bit every where yesterday today I am just relieved that she is ok.
Oh jeez you are right names ?? She will need a name !

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Tombero · 13/11/2020 21:11

I am so pleased for you, I think this is my favourite mumsnet thread. You and DP have taken this amazing but surprising news so well! Congratulations to you both Flowers

MsChatterbox · 13/11/2020 21:16

Wow congratulations. Now we can help think of names! My daughters name is Eloise nn Ellie how do you like the sound of that? 🤣

HumphreyGoodmanswife · 13/11/2020 21:18

I've just read this whole thread through with a big smile on my face Grin. Congratulations! What fantastic news for you both. And thank you for sharing your lovely exciting news with the rest of MN - it's so nice to read something happy and heart warming for once this year FlowersBear

Blueuggboots · 13/11/2020 21:36

Poppy....because she just popped out?!
Allegria...(Al-ah-gree-ah) - joy in Spanish
Vita - like vite in French - quick?

minipie · 13/11/2020 22:01

Isadora - it means “gift of the goddess of fertility” Grin

TheTeenageYears · 13/11/2020 22:10

Congratulations - such a heart warming post in such crap times. Please pop back to the thread every now and again and let us all know how you're getting on xx

longtompot · 13/11/2020 22:13

Wow! 30 weeks! I don't want to alarm you but my yd was born at 31 weeks Shock I just wanted to add my congratulations to you and your family. I'm so pleased your partner is on board and happy about his impending daughter. As for baby names, here's a list with some meanings on the theme of surprise www.ranker.com/list/baby-names-that-mean-surprise/famous-names

MrsRagnarLothbrok · 13/11/2020 22:22

what lovely news

sociallydistained · 13/11/2020 22:29

Great update, OP! We are all invested in this pregnancy now. So glad everything is well. Wow 30 weeks.

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CanSomeoneElsePickMyName · 13/11/2020 22:47

Mia?

Feedingthebirds1 · 13/11/2020 23:03

Amir? As in 'I'm 'ere!'

Whattheactual20201 · 13/11/2020 23:20

I think we both like Delilah.

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longwigglylines · 13/11/2020 23:27

If it snows this year, how about a name that means snow:

Eira (pronounced AY-ruh)
Neva (Latin for snow)

Niamh (means "bright" or "radiant" which could relate to snow plus a brilliant story about Niamh being the daughter of the god of the sea, one of the queens of Tír na nÓg, the land of the forever-young).

Nia (same name as Niamh but the Welsh version)

Or, if she's a Christmas baby:

Estelle (meaning star)
Stella (also meaning star)
Joy
Gabrielle
Ivy
Robyn
Clara (the little girl in the Nutcracker)
Natalia (A French name meaning born at Christmas, apparently)

longwigglylines · 13/11/2020 23:27

Cross post! Delilah is lovely xx

WitchWife · 13/11/2020 23:32

Best update ever, I’m so glad to hear your baby is alright and so are you Smile

Also think of all the pregnancy worry you’ve missed out on hahaha

BillysMyBunny · 13/11/2020 23:50

Delilah is lovely. Huge congratulations xxx

CanuckBC · 14/11/2020 00:29

Just read the whole thread! Congratulations! So exciting❤️

ThumbWitchesAbroad · 14/11/2020 01:32

Woohoooo! I'm thrilled for you! You will be too once the idea beds in and you're over the shock.

I'm still laughing at your DD asking for a baby for Christmas, and you obliging without even knowing! Grin

Congratulations @Whattheactual20201 - I hope everything goes nice and smoothly for you now, and it's lovely to have some actual good news from this abysmal year. Thanks

dancemusicsexromance · 14/11/2020 05:15

Such beautiful news - my daughter and I have been refreshing all day for an update.

Congratulations.

This thread has made a lot of people smile during such an uncertain time.

Hope all goes well and you continue to update occasionally. X

Whattheactual20201 · 14/11/2020 05:35

It’s 5.33 am and I’m wide awake browsing John Lewis 🤣 clearly not as calm as I think !

I have baby shopped in 7 years !!

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