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Words I hate...I AIBU I know but I want to tell you mine and hear yours.

435 replies

FortunesFave · 11/11/2020 07:22

Smellies.

What an ugly word for something as nice as beauty or bath products.

Booze.

So SLOPPY sounding. BOOZE...no...no...no.

OP posts:
Guineapigbridge · 12/11/2020 03:40

I hate it when pretentious dicks say a room is a "space"

Guineapigbridge · 12/11/2020 03:43

I also hate pretentious use of clothing terms, like "a crisp white trouser"

lovelemoncurd · 12/11/2020 04:35

Gotten- I hate that the use of this 'word' has increased.

MisfitRightIn · 12/11/2020 04:48

I’m a Brit, living in the US

Panties. Ugh just don’t

Soundbyte · 12/11/2020 04:53

Preggo and preggers are repulsive.

Catflapkitkat · 12/11/2020 06:33

Cannot believe this post has 14 pages and no one has mentioned the inappropriate 'randoming'. As in a bit random?

I am on a board for English speaking mothers. (not in the UK so many asking for tips and pointers). Someone posted 'Hey guys, sorry for the most RANDOM post EVER but can any of you recommend somewhere to get long sleeve t.shirts'? Talk about disappointed. I really wanted to suggest she look up the words random and ever in a dictionary before she goes shopping but we're supposed to be helpful and supportive.

JMG1234 · 12/11/2020 07:35

Pop of colour. Particularly when applied in the context of a room being so grey that people assume you've taken the photo in black and white.

JMG1234 · 12/11/2020 07:37

Also the lapin/rabbit misdirection is hilarious. Though possibly less so for the sacrificial rabbits.

MarthasGinYard · 12/11/2020 07:39

Things are 'sourced' these days too Hmm

BatleyTownswomensGuild · 12/11/2020 07:47

Quince (just a horrible collection of sounds. Makes me think of fannies for some reason.)

Cardamom (I have an irrational hatred of this word. The m at the end sounds totally wrong.)

Blerg · 12/11/2020 07:52

Needs gone - just awful.

Trainings - I’m seeing this one more and more. No plural needed!

I also hate many mentioned above: panties, brolly, hubby, holibobs. Also bonking e.g. ‘bonk buster’, though that is at least funny.

TheMoonIsFlat · 12/11/2020 08:27

Lush Confused

Kittykat93 · 12/11/2020 08:48

Agree with loads of these! Cannot stand 'lashings of' eg butter. A poster the other day about Xmas day breakfast said they had smoked salmon with 'lashings of champagne' urghhhhh made me cringe

MoonJelly · 12/11/2020 08:52

Text used in the past tense instead of texted.

carrotcakecat · 12/11/2020 09:07

I love this thread. DP doesn't get annoyed by anything and I do allllll the time:

cologne4711 omg gifting. nope.
flaviaritt I HATE "shop". 'Shop Christmas' ...no.

I also hate (there's a list...)

'to be fair' were you being unfair? massively overused

'treat yourself' for buying things

'pre-planning' planning is preparation, how can you pre-prepare?

yourself/myself used wrongly

'pieces' for clothes in a wardrobe. Also, I do not 'curate' clothes, nor do I need to hear 'collection'. Im not a fffing designer, this isn't art. I shop in FARA. ohh... and 'haul'. you bought clothes, you didn't go fishing.

'I'm just gonna go ahead and...' just annoying (SIL says it a lot)

Also, not a word, but when those social media videos of people putting on clothes/shoes etc. and they wiggle the item they're holding around in front of the camera. I can see they are a pair of shoes, I don't need you to do the little wiggle thing.

....and breathe....Grin

carrotcakecat · 12/11/2020 09:09

veggies

We already have these words. Vegetables, or the shorter but equally useful 'veg'

Heidi1976 · 12/11/2020 09:09

@bearlyactive

Weirdly, "meal". I have no idea why. I say it myself sometimes, but I hate it!
I'm the same!!

Exquisite I don't like either.

MadamShazam · 12/11/2020 09:12

Hubby
'This one'
Mama bear
Boobing instead of breastfeeding
Twas- makes me shudder everytime I see or hear it
#blessed
Furbabies
It was a struggle even typing theae words out 😖

ShowOfHands · 12/11/2020 09:26

Lots of things already mentioned. Picky tea and picky bits are awful. Bits on its own is bad enough. I struggle with people describing eating anyway. Obviously om nom nomming can fuck off but it can take yum and yummy with it and any affected descriptions of eating like oh I nibbled at/tore into/picked at/ate a few crumbs etc. No. Any affectation actually. People on here are always "popping" out or "just grabbing a few bits" or "throwing on a nice top and jeans". All this airy, affected, feigned nonchalance makes me feel irrationally angry. Food abbreviations too. Jacket pots and veg and tommy k and spag bol. All of it. STOP.

Also, the words super and amazing have become triggers for rage. That's a MN thing. Useless husbands are always "amazing dads" (amazing usually means they do some childcare) or feckless boyfriends provide "amazing sex" which is code for 'treats me like shit when he isn't getting his end away'. Everything is super too. Super happy, super pleased, super annoyed. Stop. Saying. Super. And while you're bettering yourself, sentences do not need to start with "so" with the regularity you assume.

TheDowagerDuchess · 12/11/2020 09:46

Keep coming in and out of this thread but also everything ShowofHands just said.

ChristmasFluff · 12/11/2020 10:21

"From scratch" when making food. It makes me feel like it's full of skin bits.

'stadia', fora' and all the other latinised plurals of words that have fully transitioned into English and only need an 's' IMO - and the sooner the dictionaries get on board and off the fence, the better Smile. I am internally judgy of people who do it, and I judge that they are the same people who talk about 'myself' instead of 'me' too.

Allthegoodnamesweretakenalread · 12/11/2020 10:37

Only 2 more sleeps until x event.

TheVamoosh · 12/11/2020 10:37

When people say something like "they gave it to my husband and I". Can't they hear that "they gave it to I" is wrong?

Janegrey333 · 12/11/2020 10:41

@TheVamoosh

When people say something like "they gave it to my husband and I". Can't they hear that "they gave it to I" is wrong?
They don’t seem to make that connection. They didn’t pay attention during grammar lessons, clearly.
TheVamoosh · 12/11/2020 10:43

And when people write "would of" it makes me want to ask if they always replace "have" with "of" and, if so, WHY???

Apologies, I know this has been done to death.

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