So I met a guy in July on pof. He said from the start he didn’t want to jump into a relationship as we both had finished a relationship in January .
Anyway we were seeing each other every week. Just to add I know it was lockdown but I was working from home and so was he so we didn’t see anyone else. We used to text and call each other all day everyday. I got the good morning and night messages everything. I got feelings for him and mentioned quite a few times that I didn’t want just sex and if he was seeing other girls I would walk away.
He was ok with this and said he wasn’t which I believed so I thought we were dating. We finally slept with each other in September as I like to wait. About a week after we slept together he changed. He didn’t ghost me but basically became not interested in everything. Wasn’t texting and stuff as much anymore.
I later found out that he was suffering with ptsd again and had found out his ex is dating one of his team mates.
I’ve realised that he’s an arse and it’s either me or he’s not over his ex. But was I wrong thinking we were dating or was I just a friends with benefits to him but without the sex 🤣🤣.