So I have lived in my house for 2 years now. My neighbour is relatively quiet because she used to spend most of the time in her sisters or in the local pub. I would hear her coming home every night and closing all the doors, but that was about it.
Since the pubs have closed she now plays music very loud until around midnight. I can hear it in my bedroom from her living room. I think people may have moved in with her for lock-down.
Usually the next time I seen her I would just mention I could hear her music and if she could turn it down a little earlier and hope she was reasonable, but I have a 2 year old who obviously knows how to make noise. He cries occasionally and plays sports and loudly celebrates when people score/do a trick but this also stops after 8pm and isn't constant.
DH is also a bit deaf so can be loud and sometimes I have to raise my voice to him. Also doesn't help when he rings his hard of hearing grandparents!
Basically, would it be unreasonable of me to ask her to lower the music past 10pm? DS isn't phased by it once he is asleep as his room is the other side of the house but I can hear it and means I struggle to sleep.
I am just worried she would come back to me saying she can hear my baby. When i used to stay in my mums her neighbours said they could never hear DS so I could be panicking over nothing.