@Ylvamoon
Gancanny I work with and alongside volunteers in the charity sector. Some are long term unemployed, for whatever reason. They are treated with the highest regard, there is no "then & us"...
I'm glad there are people who don't share your views...
I'm a volunteer for a charity. I've worked with lots of others who are volunteers or who come via the jobcentre. Being treated decently is good for confidence building and a few have gone on to find work. Its been interesting talking to several of the women who've come for a few weeks experience.
And why have they decided finding work might be a good thing? Because their children grew up and they are no longer eligible for the extra benefits. Their reason for not working for 16 years (or longer depending on how many children) - because they had children! Children in some families grow up thinking not working is the norm. Lets face it, nowadays unless one parent is a big earner, it takes two to support a family. I don't know how so many non resident parents get away with minimum contributions, and I don't understand why women, at least when their children are at school, don't get some experience or qualifications so they don't find themselves in the position of possibly relying on a pittance until they retire.
There is no one answer why some families are in poverty, so much depends on how much is coming in, but also what its spent on. The benefits system has let people down, sadly they are probably the most needy. So many different reasons, including the lack of personal responsibility, and sadly in some areas, not working is the norm.