To not want to be friends with her?

[notsodirty30]

I was friends with a girl who got with my ex after we broke up. They are happy together now which is all well and good and I don't dislike her. but at the same time, I don't want to be friends with her. AIBU?

Is somebody telling you you should be friends with her?

If your left out of your friendship circle by not being her friend, if you don't want to don't.
Be polite in her company but that's all you need to do. Your choice

I wouldn't want to be
Is she asking to be friends with you

You dont need to be friends with anyone for any reason. If she is part of your circle you may need to tolerate her at times though.

You don't have to be friends with anyone if you don't want to.

We don't mix in the same circle, we have a couple of mutual friends but we wouldn't have to spend time together for any reason. She wants to be friends with me again.

I would tell her that while you hold no grudges and wish her no ill will you don’t wish to rekindle a friendship.

Yep, agreed with PP, just respond clearly- no hard feelings and I wish you well but I would like to leave things as they are.

@BashfulClam

I would tell her that while you hold no grudges and wish her no ill will you don’t wish to rekindle a friendship.

This.