Would you date someone like yourself?

[PepsiFan77]

if they were the opposite sex(or what your type is) , but were exactly like you , would you be drawn to them

i am not sure i would.

No.
Nothing would ever get done.
So glad I have DH.

No,we’d talk about work all the time. Be too intense
I’ve had colleagues who met through work and it’s worked for them. But they do incessantly talk about work

Good god no.

God no! I'm a nightmare

God, no. I'd piss myself right off.

No, I don't like my face and I'm overweight.

Personality wise yes, I'm quite low maintenance and like a lot of time to myself so that would be ideal for me.

If was single with DC my DCs’ age think it’d be v hard for me to date, due to limited time, energy left after parenting and work, and childcare/costs.

@spottybitch

Not in a million years cos I'm fat, spotty, ugly and horrible inside and out.

Aw, I bet you're not! Don't do yourself down.

But otherwise, yes, I would date me

Looks wise - no! I’m quite short and my type is tall so that doesn’t work.

Personality wise - DH and I share some positive and negative personality traits but not enough that we drive each other crazy. I make myself crazy, so living with another one of me would be a nightmare. Following on from the Myers Brigg that a PP mentioned we’re in the same group but one letter apart - ISFJ and ISTJ. Although apparently our combination doesn’t work so read into that what you will.

No I get tetchy.

Yes 100%

Aw, I bet you're not! Don't do yourself down.

Haha, you haven't met me.

Yes, I’m excellent

I jest. I have many good qualities which I think I would find very positive in a relationship - kind, clever, pretty funny, empathetic, warm, generous, good at planning, always go the extra mile to make an event or celebration special.

But I have pretty rocky mental health, and I need someone a lot more stable than myself as a partner. I’m quite lazy, I’m perpetually burdened by terrible anxiety, I catastrophe easily and I can be very defensive. I don’t like those qualities in myself, so can’t imagine I would want to date someone with them!

My husband is the most sunny-tempered, even-keeled, calm person I know and I really feel like a thrive because of those qualities in him.

No. I have good points. I'm hardworking and always try to do the right thing and give people the benefit of the doubt. But I don't make life easy for myself, or a partner, with too much worry and overthinking.

No way. 1 of me is bad enough, 2 would be a disaster!

I did once upon a time and it was awful.

I definitely wouldn't now, I'm annoying, set in my ways and selfish, and have no plans to change anytime soon.

Fuck me, no. I'm an absolute nightmare.

Fortunately the male population has worked it out already, so .... they're safe

Probably not,I'm a control freak.Having said that ive got great tits so..

My body? Sure. My personality? No fucking way.

No. We work precisely because my husband is not like me. At all. I don’t even think I’d be friends with me, if I was still me. Only room for one opinionated arse in any kind of relationship

This whole concept is blowing my mind a little –I'm not sure I know what I'm like to be in a relationship with!

I would ask DP but I know already he'd raise an eyebrow at me and very slowly say: "This? This, is a TRAP."

No, I need someone more organised and tidy than me lol

No way.

Physically I'm a mess and quite frankly emotionally I'm even worse

Yes. I’m not perfect but I’m loving, fun, hard working and reliable. And we’d have great sex!