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Why has he left

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mrssalvatore14 · 29/09/2020 20:40

My boyfriend of nearly 4 years has left me.
He's giving me all types of excuses but nothing solid all of which can be fixed. There are a million things but I'm so broken I can't imagine my life without him we have 2 children. We bought a house in march. I cant accept its over.

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Lalaloveyou2020 · 29/09/2020 20:42

I'm going to guess affair. I'm also guessing he'll come back at some stage with his tail between his legs. Don't take him back. Don't leave the house until your children are 18. You'll be ok in a month, I swear to you.

Pipandmum · 29/09/2020 20:46

He just doesn't feel the same way about you. It's nothing specific or something that can be 'fixed'. People fall out of love. When you feel up to it find out about support for your children.

IncrediblySadToo · 29/09/2020 20:48

(((Hug)))

I don't want to hurt you further, but there's pretty much always another woman involved.

I'm curious as to why you call him your 'boyfriend'. It doesn't sound very committed for a couple who have been together a few years & have kids?

Not that it matters what you call him, I'm
Just wondering what his level of commitment was and how much of an active parent he was being?

You will be ok, even if it doesn't feel like it right now c

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