FOR ALL THOSE WHO ARE DIVORCED/SEPERATED

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What was the final nail in the coffin?
What was last thing your ex did to make you finally leave them?

We didn't get married for years because he wasn't ready. When he was ready (after checking with friends ) we got married. 3 months later he accepted a job 3 hours away, somewhere I couldn't get a job. I then spent 11 months commuting a horrendous distance but expected to pick up, put up and shut up when I returned 'home' every week. Months of being ignored, belittled and finally being told, 'I can't think of anything worse than spending two days alone with you' when I booked a trip away for his birthday. I left. I don't regret it. This was 7 years ago.

He shagged a work colleague on a night out and left me for her when our DD was 9 months old. Heart breaking at the time but now I'm so glad it happened and I didn't waste my life married to him. Far happier now than I ever was with him in a much better relationship with a child together

He cheated, walked out to live with her and cleared our joint account leaving me and ds with nothing. Then found surprise debt in my name that I spent years clearing. I laughed in his face when he told me 10 months after he left could we try again and call off the divorce